What is Patriarchial FemDom?
Patriarchial Femdom: when men are inserting their fetishes; their ideas of servitude of women; and their service to women that are based on male-centered ideologies, fetishes, with an unbending focus on Big Black Cock Worship.
Examples Of Patriachial Femdom, Today
A prime example of Patriarchial Femdom is the focus of topics such as: Forced Bi. Cuckolding, and Sissification. My conclusions are these: 1) men do not like women; 2) male ideas of Female Domination mostly involve the woman pegging him with a male sex organ that is not native to her, this is the main way men claim to “submit” to women; 3) ALL men have an unhealthy obsession, especially white men, with BBC.
Female Domination by definition is about Women being dominant over men, getting what they way out of them. I am constantly being asked to perform acts of covert faggotry for human males under the guise of Female Domination. The wingman narrative is becoming exhausting and I’m over it.
What Is Service?
I respect men who are not conflating serving me with wanting to fulfill a fantasy. I truly despise hearing the words, “I just wanna serve you Goddess.” Simple because, the only way that I really want to be served is you giving my money, buying content, buying phone calls.
A pathetic bitch like you, would love to hear that I want you to serve me by licking my pussy, my ass, my boots, or whatever you want to lick. When you ask the question, “How can I serve you Goddess?” my interest is getting as much money from you as possible. What fucking else would I want from you? If you were smart you would realize that I would like you more, the more you focused on pleasing me. Yet, you’re dumb as fuck and focused on dick all day long, faggot.
The Constant Down-Low Faggotry
Patriarchy has caused a lot of men to live lives that are not real lives. Most of the men who I interact with in these scene call to discuss sucking cock, especially BBC. BBC, which has nothing to do with me, a Female Dominant. Why the fuck even bring it up? The obsession with black dick is alarming. Most of these men are also in the closet about their faggot desires.
I do not respect men using FemDom as a way to feel less shame about their secret sexuality. As I have said numerous times, I do not have a penis, naturally. When coming to serve me it’s about serving ME. I’m not interested in strap-on play unless it is used to humiliate you, for my pleasure, or to sexually dominate you. I do not have a penis. I am all woman. My strap is a commission of my dominance in this relationship and not about you wanting to be “pegged” or not.
The way their male centered Female Domination comes into play is when they are asking for anal penetration as the main way of serving a woman. It’s in no way related. Pegging in my opinion is a result of serving your Female Dominant, properly. This constant idea that men have with Femdom & Strap On, to me proves why ALL males need correction.
What is Female Domination?
Female Domination in it’s truest form is women dominating men with their natural assets. There is no hard work involved in doing this. Males do not require much to be dominated by women. They are easy to control. Female Domination does not require force, degradation, nor constant humiliation to be effective. But, when men are left to decide what Female Domination is we have what we have currently: a mass production of Patriarchal Femdom porn.
I have no interest in demonstrating what male humans believe Female Domination is in my relationships with men. I do not have to beat you down to prove my dominance over you. How I demonstrate my dominance is not indicative of your needs nor wants. Although, I may enjoy the casual verbal humiliation, the degradation of your human person, I truly do not feel that that is an embodiment of true Dominance. It is a result and an addition of it. If Female Dominance were up to you, no woman would ever experience true pleasure ever.
I do not respect men using me as an object for their fantasies under the motto of “serving me”. I would much prefer male human be upfront with their intentions to create a fantasy with me saying, “Goddess, I want to know what your interests are to see if I can create a fantasy with you.” This is not deception, this is honesty. You in no way, are using Femdom as a guise to jerk your dick. This statement helps me recognize you as a fetishist, not a submissive.
The Exchange
What is missed on most slaves is the exchange. The lack of interests in what she wants to talk about or demonstrate. It’s unbalanced. It is solely based on men fulfilling their desires constantly, to no end. Rarely is there ever education on why it is important to serve a Female Dominant. How life changing that experience can be. This exchange is not about a power exchange at all, if men are still getting what they want for very little effort.
Men in this scene rarely have an interest in serving FemDoms truly because it looks like a fetish factory with bitches in leather being mean to men. I tell you what true dominance looks like: doing anything & everything to please WOMEN. If men grasped the idea that pleasing a woman first, would include pleasing themselves, they would do it.
But as I have said before, they have brought their patriarchal ideas of women into Femdom. It is of no interest of me to require anything but cash as service to me when it comes to being my slave. If as a result of your constant service in cash, I choose to grant you a fantasy, it will happen. The main requirement to serve me is effort. Buying my clips, calling my NF everyday, sending tributes. These things are service.
Conclusion
If men are going to be in the sphere of Female Domination, they should understand that this part of the game has nothing to do with them. They should understand that dick worship has no place here. Serve women or die. Because to me, in my experience, it seems men do not even like women. Their obsession with dicks and getting them own selves off is a result of patriarchy and it’s time to call it out. The corrections must be made as we move into this new paradigm.
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