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  • The Changes We All Have Been Experiencing

    Hello wankers! I’m back with another very late post. I am sure you have been checking this everyday. To the point you feel like you’re stalking me, waiting for an update. To be honest, since all this started I have been extremely lazy. I have been doing very little work. That’s just the energy I have been in lately. The way we live our lives may never be the same after this.

    This COVID-19 virus has put a lot of things of pause. Schools, banks, concerts, sports have been slammed to a screeching halt. This is an event that none of us have experienced. I hoping that you all are remaining safe during this time. That you are not taking things for granted if you do still have work. That you take this time to really see the inequalities in our system and so something about it this November.

    We have witnessed media distrust, politician dead ass lying to our faces on TV. We see our healthcare systems in shambles and people who we deemed as “non-essential” become very essential in our lives these past few weeks. I hope that it humbles you and causes you to become kinder to one another.

    On the other note, if you’re still able to tribute, serve, and be useful then know that it is still required of you to do so. My sympathies can only extend so far as serving me is of course the utmost priority. Even over your wife and children. Remember that as well.

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  • Black Dominance Vs Your Version Of Dominance

    I’ve always had an issue with the idea that in order for a man to feel a woman is powerful, that he must feel emasculated by her or humiliated by her. I find that type of dominance to be very European and versioned with colonizing undertones. I say this because, Black Women, are dominant by nature. Never needing to degrade, nor explicitly scold, nor control to get the job done. Most blessed with a Black Mother know this. Naturally, when a Black Woman is secure, in her power, there is never a need to resort to such tactics. Surprisingly, people around her know this as well, i.e white men.

    Your male idea of Dominance is missing a key component: you are lower because I am higher. There is no need for me to demonstrate the over you. It is what it is. It is simple logic. 1+1=2, every time. No one every disputes this. I did not make these rules. If you got off your ass, went outside for fresh air, look into to nature you’d see: BROWN & BLACK is are the symbols of dominance on THIS PLANET, second to GREEN. I have heard 90% of my white human male clients say “Black Women are so strong, dominant, powerful.” Who taught them that?

    They are watching and they secretly envy our natural ability to get others to bow down. I may enjoy degrading you, but that’s not dominance. It is a result of my Dominance over you in relation to the gift of submission received by you.

     

    Why Black Women Demonstrate Domination Differently?

    I simply never saw my Mother in all my life disrespect my Father nor degrade him to get him to be submissive to her. She did not need to wield dominating power over him because it was clear, she was in charge. In return, my Father always had a clean home with home cooked meals because he never challenged that. You see, dominance is not demonstrated with words, it is demonstrated with actions. You are either dominant or you are not. I come from a long lineage of powerful, strong dominant women. I have never seen such pathetic examples of how men currently view submission. I am disgusted.

    Black women demonstrate true dominance, not a front of what dominance is. The male idea of dominance has been transferred into what Feminine Dominance look like. If you need examples of what Feminine Dominance is, I suggest you research Michelle Obama, Beyonce, Maxine Waters, Whitney Houston, Aretha Franklin. These women, who are strong, soft, and feminine. However, they are dominant women. Dominanting every thing they ever did. While being black and graceful and humble. Do you think their dominance is ever in question by the men by their side? Do you think they emasculate their men to get what they need?

    You Have No Idea What True Dominance Looks Like

    To men, domination looks very violent. It is very degrading. It’s because they have no idea what domination and true submission looks like. These ideas of this type of dominance stem from European ideals of conquering, male hood, and also ideas about women that are only based on personal male inadequacies. A man believes taking control of a situation is to become aggressive or violent. Meanwhile, I do nothing to control these men but allow them to my presence. Am I not more powerful than you?

    A Goddess in my eyes helps men evolve. My point is constantly proven about the weakness and error of men. How Femdom is a way to help men evolve. Far from it is it about male idea’s of D/S. To me their programmed to be to complete opposite from a true version of Dominance. In fact, male domination is very destructive. So, while I enjoy humiliating men to bring on Cathartic release, my main priority is educating them. To help them find power in their submission. He who submit is powerful. He is the one giving the gift of submission.

    What Black Femdom Is

    Black Femdom is about service. It is about evolution. It is about exploring yourself as man. I simply cannot continue to bore myself with loser jerking off in my ear and going into the world being mediocre. I am losing interests in the low-vibrational conversations I am having with men. Men who wonder why they are continually unhappy in their own lives. It is simple, you were never meant to be on top. In antiquity, my ancestors understood the importance of Matriarchy and submission to women, reverence for them. Colonization has bleached culture, true relationships, and identity from human males. It blocks them from achieving true intimacy. That is why all males should serve a Black Femdom.

    I have said before, I do not identify as a Dominatrix. I’m not here to get paid to be an actor for your puppet show Femdom. I truly enjoy true versions of male submission. No, male submission does not mean be a pussy or a bitch. I tell you, my Father, was very submissive, but he would break your fucking jaw, if you disrespected his home and family. Men must understand that their best way to serve women is by pleasing them & protecting them. Until men understand what dominance and submission is outside of their negative connotations and perversion they will never be happy. They will never find a satisfying relationship.

    Conclusion

    Men who want to be truly enlightened on the service of women should seek out serving Black Women, first. Especially if they are white men. There is a lot of education and evolution involved in white male service to Black Women. You will get to experience Feminine Dominance. To understand why we are so strong, you must witness it. I truly hate having to berate my slaves to get things done. I truly despise men who try to challenge me into domming them. That’s not how Black Dominance is demonstrated.

    Updates

    I have updated my podcast, so make sure you check that out. It covers how to identify what kind of sub you are and what types of subs I like. I always prefer men who do their research on me. This is a sign of effort. I do not respect men who do not put in effort. I have no energy for those types. My last blog post spoke about Femdom Patriarchy, it is a good read. It is connected to this piece. It actually helped produce it. I am on AVN stars now, so I will make sure I am uploading the last 3 months of content there.

    January 2020, I will be deleting ALL content from 2015-2017 from my clip stores. If you would like to purchase these clips, they will only be available for individual purchase on my website. So, expect a new page to be added to my website.

  • Honesty Isn’t Cheap

    I find the main issue when dealing with human males in this scene is the lack of honesty they show their partners, their families, and themselves. I am always able to zero in on these factors of self-deception and turn them outward facing the human male in question. So, since you all are unable to accept who you are, paying for honesty makes sense.

    Simply because, you refuse to be honest with your partner because you fear rejection. I know when you are alone with yourself you’re dying to show her this side of you, but like a dishonest bitch you lied to her. You did not give her the option to decide if she wanted to date a secret shit eater. This brings me to an old memory where I was Bossy Delilah’s apprentice. A man literally flew to Atlanta from Florida on Father’s Day to eat shit. After eating the shit, he went back home to kiss his wife and fucking children in the mouth. Disgusting white bitch. But think, how many of you weak bitches are doing this right now?

    He Cannot Be Honest With His Wife, So He Will Pay For My Honesty

    He cannot be honest with his wife about his turd eating addiction which turns into him lying to his wife, making flights to get shit on on MAJOR holidays, and also go back home to pretend he is normal? The more I am in this industry I feel less and less empathy for the wives of these men and even less respect for the men who lie to their wives in order to be themselves. You should have been upfront but now you and Mrs. Dummy got shit-teria on your mouths. It’s pathetic.

    I wondered why men seek out these things, visit women like me in secret. They aren’t trying to keep me secret, their whole exisitence is a fucking lie. They are trying to hide who they really are. Denying that this part of themselves is an actual real part of their identity. Lying to themselves saying this is separate. However, flying out of state to get dicked down by BBC while I watch, while your wife is oblivious to the real you, is fucking whack. In fact, that brings me to my main point: HONESTY IS EXPENSIVE.

    Honesty Is Expensive, Don’t Expect It From Cheap People

    It indeed is. You’re not paying me for the fantasy. You’re paying me to be the real you. The you, you refuse to be in front of the people you claim to love. You don’t even love yourself. This causes you to lie and then placing me on a pedestal for worship becomes easy. You call it cognitive dissonance, I call it symptoms of fake lying ass bitch. And to be honest, I don’t give a fuck about your wife. And if you’re not paying me enough for the honesty, I could care 6 fucks about you. I am honest, that’s why you pay me. You know I don’t care. You know why you’re here. And we mutually provide each other a Catharsis. Check out the first episode of “Cathartic“

    This new video I am posting today highlights these topics. You’re a dishonest bitch and I am an honest BITCH, who allows you to be all the pathetic, loser, weak ways in which you are without judgement. If you wanted honesty from your wife, you’d pay the ticket. But you’re so fucking fake, you’re so afraid to be yourself and rejected, you never will. Essentially, it’s because you lack conviction in who you say you are. And it is only me who really knows you. What is found in the dark will be kept hidden by me for a price. If not, I’ll let the shit BANG. Never try to play me, I know everything about you.

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  • Femdom Girlfriend

    If I were your Girlfriend, I would:

    1. Ignore you
    2. Fuck other men on you
    3. Fuck other men in front of you
    4. Lie to you
    5. Manipulate you
    6. Use you
    7. Use you
    8. See number 6 & 7

    The silly thing is, this is something many of you desire. To be my subby hubby. To be pathetically attached to me while I dismiss your presence. I am totally the girl your mother hates but that’s because you’re Mom is also a lame. She was never this HOT. I get it. All of your ex girlfriends were never this hot either.

    Your dick will always be locked up. You will eat what I tell you to eat, when I tell you to eat. My piss is the only source of hydration you receive. It’s a fucking good time for a bitch like you, subby hubby. Finally, you can be useful. Finally, you have the relationship you have always wanted: being under my heel as my cuck lover.

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