Regular porn does nothing for you anymore. Your dick can’t even get hard to watching men fuck women or women sucking dicks. Even Bukkake does nothing for your depraved mind. What you desire is to be on the brink of self-destruction by sending all of your money to hot black women online. You can’t stop this. You don’t want to stop this. You have a need to be used for everything that you have. It’s so arousing for someone to call you their pay pig. You get off like nothing else when black women talk down to you and demoralize you while happily accepting your money. If you indulge in anything related to humiliation, it leads you right back to findom hell. You can’t even watch actual porn without searching for keywords like findom, pig, goddess, or loser.
Deep down inside, you love feeling powerless. You love being on your knees, giving everything you’ve worked for to a woman who is better than you, hotter than you, a woman who will never fuck you. In fact, I think you have a denial fetish more than you have anything else. The denial of a woman who receives payment from other men solely because she is attractive arouses you. You masturbate while oinking into the phone, never communicating actual speech. And even if you do watch regular porn, it is only to entertain your fantasies regarding the attractive woman comparing you to the man she is actually with. She’ll never have sex with a pay-pig loser like you. And then it goes over and over again: the feelings of wanting to be humiliated, pain, shame, and jerking off. Trying to stop and then going right back to paying. You love throwing away money for the sake of the dopamine that findom gives you. You do not care what it does to your mental health or self-image because you thrive on your own self-destruction.
“Pos Hoc Nut Clarity” is a imaginary theory proposed by men who feel shame for pumping to questionable porn and blowing the biggest load they ever did. I am proposing that we skip this “feeling” for you by avoiding orgasming altogether. There are so many reasons to avoid orgasming. If blowing your seed to my mind-fucking humiliation videos, toilet videos, and ass videos make you feel like you should change your life and stop watching porn, avoid your orgasm. Ideas of bettering yourself to not be a pumping, cum addict for me are not allowed.
“I shall be a porn-addicted cum-addicted goon for Goddess Aspen Aires without resorting to pos hoc nut clarification. If she doesn’t give me permission to cum, I won’t.”
The Truth About Pos Hoc Nut Clarity
Poc Hoc Nut Clarity Causes Ill Feelings: No loyal submissive will ever feel like they are giving their all while adopting Pos Hoc Nut Clarity. It goes against common sense, as serving your Goddess should be about selflessness and satisfaction. If you’re a paying pig bitch, serving me shouldn’t make you feel guilty about stroking. Instead, being a bitch for me is all about how good it makes you feel. Your desire to be submissive to women is already a secret you hide from the world. Don’t exasperate this shame. Avoid unsupervised orgasms and skip the guilt! Why use your precious creative energy on emotions that won’t make you feel better?
Pos Hoc Nut Clarity Perpetuates Harmful Stereotypes: Your sexuality is a part of who you are and should be celebrated. You’ve been that person who’s nasty cock will cum to the most filthy, humiliating ass porn in my store. It genuinely is you, and you are a loser. Accept everything that you feel inside. Deep inside, you are aware that you are a beta male for domineering black women. It’s natural for you to want to serve me and put your orgasms under my control, but when you ignore this part of yourself, you’re reinforcing harmful stereotypes about what men are permitted to enjoy for sexual pleasure. Sexuality in men is nuanced and not devoid of feeling. By letting yourself see things more clearly, you might reignite those suppressed unpleasant emotions. It’s best to avoid them completely by not cumming at all unless you have been given permission by me.
Affirm: “ I will pump endlessly without cumming unless supervised or controlled by Goddess Aspen Aires”
The Emotional Void: Pos Hoc Nut Clarity should be avoided at all costs because it doesn’t allow you to commit emotionally and mentally to your goals as a submissive. When you are allowing yourself to orgasm as you please, you bring yourself to those feelings of shame because you’re not pumping with a purpose. Your orgasms should have goals. The goal is not feeling shame for being a weak slave for me. The goal is to find ways to embrace your true, divine nature: a man who is a servant to Black Women. Cumming unsupervised will lead you to parts of you psyche you are not ready for. It is best to cum under the supervision and command of your superior.
Affirm: Pos Hoc Nut Clarity shames and hinders the pursuit of genuine, divine nature; thus, I will avoid it for emotional and mental purposes. Cumming unsupervised may result in unprepared mental states; therefore, I cum under supervision.
Seeking Emotional Depth: Shunning unsupervised orgasms is imperative to serving me better. Devoted slaves understand that practicing post-nut clarity avoidance leads to personal development and growth. They also understand that pos hoc nut clarity is a distraction from being the best bitches they can be for me. I encourage all of my submissives to practice pumping to my content for hours without cumming. Explore the emotional depths that not orgasming without my permission causes you. Explain how pos hoc nut clarity avoidance has helped you become a better slave for me. Dive into how you have come to accept your true role as a submissive to me because you have been practicing pos hoc nut clarity avoidance along with the practice of shunning unsupervised orgasms.
Practicing Intention Service: While you are beginning this journey to avoiding post hoc nut clarity, you are to reflect on what intentional service to your Black Goddess really is. How does avoiding unsupervised orgasms create a feeling of intention service and submission to me? I require you to meditate on these benefits and send me a daily dairy of your observations. Service to me is not just about physical release. It requires devotion while inspiring discipline. Write in your daily diary about how this practice has informed you on you deep cravings of intimacy and emotional connection to women.
Advocating for Authentic Communication: If you want to reach true clarity it requires you to be honest about you desire to be at the service of women. Admitting to yourself just how deep your desire for submission, humiliation, and obedience to women truly is. If you allow yourself to follow my guidance on this, you will build a deeper understanding of your true nature.
Conclusion
Finally, devotees of Goddess Aspen Aires find little alternative but to shun the results of Pos Hoc Nut Clarity. You, as a devoted follower, must place a high value on developing greater psychological connections and gaining a more nuanced wisdom of your subservient position. The journey to discovering oneself begins with establishing a discipline of restrained pleasure and acquiring the understanding of intentional service. Let the motto, “I will pump endlessly without cumming unless supervised or controlled by Goddess Aspen Aires,” be your north star as you strive to realize your sublime potential through unyielding devotion to your Queen.
Boy toys like you are a dime a dozen. You exist everywhere on the internet searching for a release. In your desperation, you crave to be used and controlled. Destroyed, even. The deep desire to submit and be a collared boy toy for a black woman consumes you. To be at my beck and call, only to be discarded when I am done with you. I imagine you think about being my financial submissive, a lot. I even imagine, that you understand that’s the only way to keep my attention: giving your cash up.
#1 You’ve Never Had Attention From Black Women
All those fantasies about actually fucking a black woman, never came to pass. They never will, boy toy. This realization came quickly for you. You were never good enough for hot black girls then, and you’re not good enough for them now. However, you do understand that you can be useful as an ass cleaning wallet. Losers like you must settle. Black women are unattainable for you. Ass cleaning, boot cleaning, getting drained, that is the most attention you will ever receive from a Black Woman.
Black women are above you in every sense. What is even better is that you understand this already because you were never masculine enough to fulfil a black woman. You’re just a whiny little dick beta boy toy bitch who loves paying Black Women to humiliate his little penis. Even if you could stop jerking your cock to my porn, you wouldn’t. You’re fucking addicted.
#2 You Love Being A Finsub Boy Toy For Black Women
I mean fucking look at me. Do I look like I should be working hard? I’m way too fucking hot to work. Especially when there is a sea of weaklings on the internet who want to be my finsubs. You love paying me because I am a beautiful, arrogant, aloof, insatiable EvilBlackBitch. Going to work everyday to fund my life is addicting to you. Obviously, it’s because I’m the best fucking thing that is every happened to you.
You love being my finsub because it makes you feel closer to my Black Greatness. Fortunately, you understand that I am superior to you. I am the only thing that is keeping you from going over the edge into loneliness. We both know black women will never speak to you on any romantic level. Settle for being a financial submissive instead. It builds character.
#3 Toys Are Meant To Be Used
What happens when toys are no longer fun to play with? They get thrown out of recycled. Unfortunately, you do not have the option of being recycled finsub. No, you will be used until you are completely broken. Consider me doing this world a favor. I am keeping you from committing egregious male crimes in the world by keeping you occupied with stroking to my hot porn. Inceldom is so real. Yet, I have saved you from that reality. You never have to live under the threat of being a lonely loser as long as you agree to be my toy.
In fact, you should strive to be my most favorite toy. This means you have a longevity with me. I may keep you around. Working toward becoming my favorite obviously means you must feed my greedy, phat juicy ass with cash, beta! Female domination is all about extracting human male energy and using it to our benefit. None of this is about you. It never will be. Toys are solely for my entertainment purposes only.
Since you will never stop fucking touching that little thing in between your legs, I have provided a solution. You can stroke to hot girl on cam right now, for free. We both know how much you love to edge. So, I have created my own camsite: Goon Forever. It was made for little betas like you who can’t keep their hands off their dicks.
Imagine stroking, edging, and cumming to a different hot woman every night. Imagine doing that every night and knowing I am getting 30% of every purchase you make. Every time you blow your load I am getting paid. What is fucking hotter than paying me for the privilege of cumming to other women on my platform?
Do you see how generous I am? I am so generous. It is 100% free to join. You will need a credit card to access certain features but I know that I don’t have to worry about you. You can’t stop being used by women!
Hello wankers! I’m back with another very late post. I am sure you have been checking this everyday. To the point you feel like you’re stalking me, waiting for an update. To be honest, since all this started I have been extremely lazy. I have been doing very little work. That’s just the energy I have been in lately. The way we live our lives may never be the same after this.
This COVID-19 virus has put a lot of things of pause. Schools, banks, concerts, sports have been slammed to a screeching halt. This is an event that none of us have experienced. I hoping that you all are remaining safe during this time. That you are not taking things for granted if you do still have work. That you take this time to really see the inequalities in our system and so something about it this November.
We have witnessed media distrust, politician dead ass lying to our faces on TV. We see our healthcare systems in shambles and people who we deemed as “non-essential” become very essential in our lives these past few weeks. I hope that it humbles you and causes you to become kinder to one another.
On the other note, if you’re still able to tribute, serve, and be useful then know that it is still required of you to do so. My sympathies can only extend so far as serving me is of course the utmost priority. Even over your wife and children. Remember that as well.
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I’ve always had an issue with the idea that in order for a man to feel a woman is powerful, that he must feel emasculated by her or humiliated by her. I find that type of dominance to be very European and versioned with colonizing undertones. I say this because, Black Women, are dominant by nature. Never needing to degrade, nor explicitly scold, nor control to get the job done. Most blessed with a Black Mother know this. Naturally, when a Black Woman is secure, in her power, there is never a need to resort to such tactics. Surprisingly, people around her know this as well, i.e white men.
Your male idea of Dominance is missing a key component: you are lower because I am higher. There is no need for me to demonstrate the over you. It is what it is. It is simple logic. 1+1=2, every time. No one every disputes this. I did not make these rules. If you got off your ass, went outside for fresh air, look into to nature you’d see: BROWN & BLACK is are the symbols of dominance on THIS PLANET, second to GREEN. I have heard 90% of my white human male clients say “Black Women are so strong, dominant, powerful.” Who taught them that?
They are watching and they secretly envy our natural ability to get others to bow down. I may enjoy degrading you, but that’s not dominance. It is a result of my Dominance over you in relation to the gift of submission received by you.
Why Black Women Demonstrate Domination Differently?
I simply never saw my Mother in all my life disrespect my Father nor degrade him to get him to be submissive to her. She did not need to wield dominating power over him because it was clear, she was in charge. In return, my Father always had a clean home with home cooked meals because he never challenged that. You see, dominance is not demonstrated with words, it is demonstrated with actions. You are either dominant or you are not. I come from a long lineage of powerful, strong dominant women. I have never seen such pathetic examples of how men currently view submission. I am disgusted.
Black women demonstrate true dominance, not a front of what dominance is. The male idea of dominance has been transferred into what Feminine Dominance look like. If you need examples of what Feminine Dominance is, I suggest you research Michelle Obama, Beyonce, Maxine Waters, Whitney Houston, Aretha Franklin. These women, who are strong, soft, and feminine. However, they are dominant women. Dominanting every thing they ever did. While being black and graceful and humble. Do you think their dominance is ever in question by the men by their side? Do you think they emasculate their men to get what they need?
You Have No Idea What True Dominance Looks Like
To men, domination looks very violent. It is very degrading. It’s because they have no idea what domination and true submission looks like. These ideas of this type of dominance stem from European ideals of conquering, male hood, and also ideas about women that are only based on personal male inadequacies. A man believes taking control of a situation is to become aggressive or violent. Meanwhile, I do nothing to control these men but allow them to my presence. Am I not more powerful than you?
A Goddess in my eyes helps men evolve. My point is constantly proven about the weakness and error of men. How Femdom is a way to help men evolve. Far from it is it about male idea’s of D/S. To me their programmed to be to complete opposite from a true version of Dominance. In fact, male domination is very destructive. So, while I enjoy humiliating men to bring on Cathartic release, my main priority is educating them. To help them find power in their submission. He who submit is powerful. He is the one giving the gift of submission.
What Black Femdom Is
Black Femdom is about service. It is about evolution. It is about exploring yourself as man. I simply cannot continue to bore myself with loser jerking off in my ear and going into the world being mediocre. I am losing interests in the low-vibrational conversations I am having with men. Men who wonder why they are continually unhappy in their own lives. It is simple, you were never meant to be on top. In antiquity, my ancestors understood the importance of Matriarchy and submission to women, reverence for them. Colonization has bleached culture, true relationships, and identity from human males. It blocks them from achieving true intimacy. That is why all males should serve a Black Femdom.
I have said before, I do not identify as a Dominatrix. I’m not here to get paid to be an actor for your puppet show Femdom. I truly enjoy true versions of male submission. No, male submission does not mean be a pussy or a bitch. I tell you, my Father, was very submissive, but he would break your fucking jaw, if you disrespected his home and family. Men must understand that their best way to serve women is by pleasing them & protecting them. Until men understand what dominance and submission is outside of their negative connotations and perversion they will never be happy. They will never find a satisfying relationship.
Conclusion
Men who want to be truly enlightened on the service of women should seek out serving Black Women, first. Especially if they are white men. There is a lot of education and evolution involved in white male service to Black Women. You will get to experience Feminine Dominance. To understand why we are so strong, you must witness it. I truly hate having to berate my slaves to get things done. I truly despise men who try to challenge me into domming them. That’s not how Black Dominance is demonstrated.
Updates
I have updated my podcast, so make sure you check that out. It covers how to identify what kind of sub you are and what types of subs I like. I always prefer men who do their research on me. This is a sign of effort. I do not respect men who do not put in effort. I have no energy for those types. My last blog post spoke about Femdom Patriarchy, it is a good read. It is connected to this piece. It actually helped produce it. I am on AVN stars now, so I will make sure I am uploading the last 3 months of content there.
The OPS System is the release. You clearly understand your role in relation to me. Your role has always been clear, simple, precise, and to the point: transferring your wealth to me. It’s always been about Wealth Redistribution for me. I’m not sorry you fell in love with me, cash bitch loser. The makings of a cash bitch take time and patience, let’s get started
Where A Cash Bitch Finds Himself
You scourged the internet looking for a release, didn’t you? As a result, it caused a longing to experience a release you can never produce on your own because you’re you. Yet, release is here, now, with me. And I’ve got you locked in my cash paying pit forever. You’ve listened, stayed away, obeyed, and more importantly, you’ve paid, cash bitch. Because you now understand that it’s always been about Serving Black Women. You understand that your whims and desires are never primary, cash bitch loser. We have grown so close with you participating only monetarily.
Molding A Cash Bitch
A cash pig is not fucking born. One must create it. You have learned over time, through constant repetition that: only cash moves me. I make this very clear in our interactions. Have you ever interacted with me and not paid me? Has there ever been a time you could get close to me without giving what it is due for that interaction? Lonely, cash bitch, there will never come a time, ever.
Fast forward to you now, a seasoned HBM bitch. A paying, subservient little bitch. A paying, loyal to only me, in cash, bitch. Look at how far you have come. The O.P.S System is working perfectly. You are in a league of your own. One of my best cash bitches made it to the 10k club this year. He is the most happy of my cash bitches. Oh, how excited he was to hear that he has sacrificed so much for his Queen Princess. Seek to become better than him. Make me forget about him because your cash is longer than his.
Pride, Ego & Cash Bitches
There is always a bit of pride and ego when giving your hard earned cash to a woman who gives you nothing in return for that transaction. However, it is what humbles you into service. This act alone removes ego from you interactions with me slowly overtime. It takes away that “pride” and turns it into grace, happiness, generosity. Qualities such as those make men worthy of my time and attention. And you do want my time and attention.
How To Become A Cash Bitch
Becoming a cash bitch is easy, all it takes is repetition. First, you must devote your financial life to me. Dedicating your disposable income to me is the first step into becoming a well-loved cash bitch. This is money you would probably spend doing boring things or harmful things like drinking or buying porn from vanilla sites. You now have a purpose for this money. The purpose is me.
Secondly, you become a cash bitch by showing constant support. Buying clips and calling me everyday on Niteflirt is the best way to show that you want to be seen and chosen. Supporting me is your priority. It makes me enjoy your presence more. Your financial support is the most important thing about you. Make sure that you keep your record with me up!
Lastly, every time I post a blog post or a podcast you are to make sure you devour it! I post a podcast once a week. You are required to listen to it and listen to it on repeat. This is a free educational source. Make sure that you take advantage of that. If you are a sub on a budget please refer this post HERE.
Conclusions
As always, I use this last paragraph to direct you to my Podcast links, my latest blog posts, my clip stores, and my twitter links. I am always accepting sessions here in Atlanta, GA. I am always accepting Skype Sessions, please book these 24 hours ahead, unless you see that I am online on NF, then call the NF line. My twitter is currently suspended until 11/11/19, @hailblackmamba, @hailblackmamba2, @aspen_aires. My main clipstores are IWC & C4S. I do prefer C4S, I love them as a company.
I find the main issue when dealing with human males in this scene is the lack of honesty they show their partners, their families, and themselves. I am always able to zero in on these factors of self-deception and turn them outward facing the human male in question. So, since you all are unable to accept who you are, paying for honesty makes sense.
Simply because, you refuse to be honest with your partner because you fear rejection. I know when you are alone with yourself you’re dying to show her this side of you, but like a dishonest bitch you lied to her. You did not give her the option to decide if she wanted to date a secret shit eater. This brings me to an old memory where I was Bossy Delilah’s apprentice. A man literally flew to Atlanta from Florida on Father’s Day to eat shit. After eating the shit, he went back home to kiss his wife and fucking children in the mouth. Disgusting white bitch. But think, how many of you weak bitches are doing this right now?
He Cannot Be Honest With His Wife, So He Will Pay For My Honesty
He cannot be honest with his wife about his turd eating addiction which turns into him lying to his wife, making flights to get shit on on MAJOR holidays, and also go back home to pretend he is normal? The more I am in this industry I feel less and less empathy for the wives of these men and even less respect for the men who lie to their wives in order to be themselves. You should have been upfront but now you and Mrs. Dummy got shit-teria on your mouths. It’s pathetic.
I wondered why men seek out these things, visit women like me in secret. They aren’t trying to keep me secret, their whole exisitence is a fucking lie. They are trying to hide who they really are. Denying that this part of themselves is an actual real part of their identity. Lying to themselves saying this is separate. However, flying out of state to get dicked down by BBC while I watch, while your wife is oblivious to the real you, is fucking whack. In fact, that brings me to my main point: HONESTY IS EXPENSIVE.
Honesty Is Expensive, Don’t Expect It From Cheap People
It indeed is. You’re not paying me for the fantasy. You’re paying me to be the real you. The you, you refuse to be in front of the people you claim to love. You don’t even love yourself. This causes you to lie and then placing me on a pedestal for worship becomes easy. You call it cognitive dissonance, I call it symptoms of fake lying ass bitch. And to be honest, I don’t give a fuck about your wife. And if you’re not paying me enough for the honesty, I could care 6 fucks about you. I am honest, that’s why you pay me. You know I don’t care. You know why you’re here. And we mutually provide each other a Catharsis. Check out the first episode of “Cathartic“
This new video I am posting today highlights these topics. You’re a dishonest bitch and I am an honest BITCH, who allows you to be all the pathetic, loser, weak ways in which you are without judgement. If you wanted honesty from your wife, you’d pay the ticket. But you’re so fucking fake, you’re so afraid to be yourself and rejected, you never will. Essentially, it’s because you lack conviction in who you say you are. And it is only me who really knows you. What is found in the dark will be kept hidden by me for a price. If not, I’ll let the shit BANG. Never try to play me, I know everything about you.
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I have heard this statement so many time from guys online. It’s truly a baffling statement. I often wonder are these men actively seeking lifestylers or are they purposely bothering women who are charging for their services, products, and time? How annoying is it to see this statement? Very befuddling. I would think if you are going to a place that is selling a product that you want, that you would: expect to pay for it?
It’s not like you and I would ever meet at a bar and I would choose you. If you are aware of stats, the chances of you even crossing my path without giving me money are 0.00001%. Clearly because life is code and I have coded my shit so I am not contacted in my real life by those who are interested in fetish because I sell fetish. The chances of me meeting someone in my real life who is interested in these things are zero because CODE bitch. Which means I am not looking for fetish in my real life. So, I would rarely come across it in partners I’m dating or even in passing. Which means, I’m doing this for the money. Because, I sell fetish fantasies for money, it’s my career of choice ATM. Which means…what the fuck are you even talking about?
It seems like you guys are forgetting the fucking code. Let’s be so fucking real, it may hurt, you will never be in my presence for free. You have came across me as a Producer/Pro-Fetish Model/Pro-Femdom. The Pro means I get paid for my time, services, attention given to clients via CASH. I wonder what in seven fucks do you mean, “You’re only in it for the money.” Are you dumb? Or are you stupid? I can’t imagine you being smart, so I didn’t provide that option as a question to ask.
Literally my face, every time.
I think guys who are like the examples provided above should put more effort into finding a real girlfriend or wife, or domme who is in the lifestyle and wants to play with them for free. I love my career because I get paid for it. I love my lifestyle because I love my career that I get paid for. I wonder have I ever made this not clear. Did the fact that I have things for sale, promo selling things, mean that I in fact am not here for the CHECK? I am befuddled. This is simple CODE guys. Life is CODING. You bitches really put yourselves in situations where one must really question: “Are men this fucking dumb? or Are do they think they’re above my cash requirements? Or Maybe just dumb?”
This is why FEMDOM is needed in all men’s lives. I think not having a solid woman guiding men from the beginning of their lives is an impediment to my fucking work. This sense of “not paying for” women’s time is ingrained in every future little loser human male being born on the planet, granted his parents life a morally correct lifetstyle by which the WOMB-MAN is in the lead. Your father couldn’t lead and you cannot lead. You are not built for it. You are built to protect and provide and do. So, why the fuck do you think you are not going to part with your cash when it comes to me?
It’s almost like a flea. Lol. Fucking annoying, and the dumb bitches multiply so quickly. These foolish ideas of “in it for the money” campaigns roar across the internets and it only exposes how YOU FUCKING FAILED AT PATRIARCHY. Or how the education system has failed you, because WTF DO YOU MEAN? Is McDonald’s in it for the money? I don’t know maybe they actually feed the slop the call food to you to cut COST [money] to take more of your MONEY. And you seem to never complain about that scammin’ ass McDonald’s about “being in it for the money”.
I have to say, the only men who think this way are men who are on $200 budgets and expect $5000 service. It’s gross. BROKE BITCHES GET A JOB PRO-FETISH AIN’T YA SHIT. It’s time you start looking for someone who you wanna date who is into your lifetstyle. But you’re such a pussy, you want to be two people at once you won’t even EMBRACE YOUR FETISH by finding a woman that is into your shit. A JOKE. Lol.
Because Goddess Aspen and all those who charge for their time, services, and are participating in this capitalistic system operating their businesses independently will always be in it for the fucking CHECK. Get a CLUE dick beater. Get a wife. LOL.
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