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  • Black Dominance Vs Your Version Of Dominance

    I’ve always had an issue with the idea that in order for a man to feel a woman is powerful, that he must feel emasculated by her or humiliated by her. I find that type of dominance to be very European and versioned with colonizing undertones. I say this because, Black Women, are dominant by nature. Never needing to degrade, nor explicitly scold, nor control to get the job done. Most blessed with a Black Mother know this. Naturally, when a Black Woman is secure, in her power, there is never a need to resort to such tactics. Surprisingly, people around her know this as well, i.e white men.

    Your male idea of Dominance is missing a key component: you are lower because I am higher. There is no need for me to demonstrate the over you. It is what it is. It is simple logic. 1+1=2, every time. No one every disputes this. I did not make these rules. If you got off your ass, went outside for fresh air, look into to nature you’d see: BROWN & BLACK is are the symbols of dominance on THIS PLANET, second to GREEN. I have heard 90% of my white human male clients say “Black Women are so strong, dominant, powerful.” Who taught them that?

    They are watching and they secretly envy our natural ability to get others to bow down. I may enjoy degrading you, but that’s not dominance. It is a result of my Dominance over you in relation to the gift of submission received by you.

     

    Why Black Women Demonstrate Domination Differently?

    I simply never saw my Mother in all my life disrespect my Father nor degrade him to get him to be submissive to her. She did not need to wield dominating power over him because it was clear, she was in charge. In return, my Father always had a clean home with home cooked meals because he never challenged that. You see, dominance is not demonstrated with words, it is demonstrated with actions. You are either dominant or you are not. I come from a long lineage of powerful, strong dominant women. I have never seen such pathetic examples of how men currently view submission. I am disgusted.

    Black women demonstrate true dominance, not a front of what dominance is. The male idea of dominance has been transferred into what Feminine Dominance look like. If you need examples of what Feminine Dominance is, I suggest you research Michelle Obama, Beyonce, Maxine Waters, Whitney Houston, Aretha Franklin. These women, who are strong, soft, and feminine. However, they are dominant women. Dominanting every thing they ever did. While being black and graceful and humble. Do you think their dominance is ever in question by the men by their side? Do you think they emasculate their men to get what they need?

    You Have No Idea What True Dominance Looks Like

    To men, domination looks very violent. It is very degrading. It’s because they have no idea what domination and true submission looks like. These ideas of this type of dominance stem from European ideals of conquering, male hood, and also ideas about women that are only based on personal male inadequacies. A man believes taking control of a situation is to become aggressive or violent. Meanwhile, I do nothing to control these men but allow them to my presence. Am I not more powerful than you?

    A Goddess in my eyes helps men evolve. My point is constantly proven about the weakness and error of men. How Femdom is a way to help men evolve. Far from it is it about male idea’s of D/S. To me their programmed to be to complete opposite from a true version of Dominance. In fact, male domination is very destructive. So, while I enjoy humiliating men to bring on Cathartic release, my main priority is educating them. To help them find power in their submission. He who submit is powerful. He is the one giving the gift of submission.

    What Black Femdom Is

    Black Femdom is about service. It is about evolution. It is about exploring yourself as man. I simply cannot continue to bore myself with loser jerking off in my ear and going into the world being mediocre. I am losing interests in the low-vibrational conversations I am having with men. Men who wonder why they are continually unhappy in their own lives. It is simple, you were never meant to be on top. In antiquity, my ancestors understood the importance of Matriarchy and submission to women, reverence for them. Colonization has bleached culture, true relationships, and identity from human males. It blocks them from achieving true intimacy. That is why all males should serve a Black Femdom.

    I have said before, I do not identify as a Dominatrix. I’m not here to get paid to be an actor for your puppet show Femdom. I truly enjoy true versions of male submission. No, male submission does not mean be a pussy or a bitch. I tell you, my Father, was very submissive, but he would break your fucking jaw, if you disrespected his home and family. Men must understand that their best way to serve women is by pleasing them & protecting them. Until men understand what dominance and submission is outside of their negative connotations and perversion they will never be happy. They will never find a satisfying relationship.

    Conclusion

    Men who want to be truly enlightened on the service of women should seek out serving Black Women, first. Especially if they are white men. There is a lot of education and evolution involved in white male service to Black Women. You will get to experience Feminine Dominance. To understand why we are so strong, you must witness it. I truly hate having to berate my slaves to get things done. I truly despise men who try to challenge me into domming them. That’s not how Black Dominance is demonstrated.

    Updates

    I have updated my podcast, so make sure you check that out. It covers how to identify what kind of sub you are and what types of subs I like. I always prefer men who do their research on me. This is a sign of effort. I do not respect men who do not put in effort. I have no energy for those types. My last blog post spoke about Femdom Patriarchy, it is a good read. It is connected to this piece. It actually helped produce it. I am on AVN stars now, so I will make sure I am uploading the last 3 months of content there.

    January 2020, I will be deleting ALL content from 2015-2017 from my clip stores. If you would like to purchase these clips, they will only be available for individual purchase on my website. So, expect a new page to be added to my website.

  • Super Findom Shopping Sprees With Queen Veiny Feet

    I love shopping. I love spending loser pig cash. Honestly, if I could shop and spend slave loser cash up to 1k a day. Findom Shopping Spress are my favorite thing to accomplish, especially with my favorite Domme GF.

    QVF’s Loser Always Pays

    I have met Queen Veiny Feet’s slave a, a few times over the course over the year. He talks way too much. He pretends to be disobedient. However, extracting money from this fat pig bitch, is never a problem for two Ebony Brats like QVF and QBM. Last Sunday, QVF sent me a text asking if I wanted to shop and have dinner, slave a was treating. I, did not hestitate at a chance to spend loser cash. It took me all of an hour to get ready for a stroll in Lenox Mall to spend oink-pig bitch cash with my girl Queen Veiny Feet. Did you think we were not going to hit the mall first? HA!

    Mall Spoils

    We head to Lenox Mall in my car, Maxine. Maxine is my new car. She is 2013 Honda Civic. I love her. You can pay for her car insurance and car note here. The first place we head to in the mall is Macy’s. Macy’s always has the ill shit for affordable prices. We immediately rush to the wallet and purse section. I spotted a few wallets from Kate Spade that I LOVED. Check out how beautiful those fucking wallets were. Getting it for me will be the best thing you can do for yourself. Send Macy Giftcards to hailblackmamba@yahoo.com

    Without much help, we made our way over to the shoes section. I spotted this beautiful rhinestone shoes by Aqua. I needed a pair of those shoes!The shoes were super comfortable. A size 6 fit my tiny feet perfectly. I like to have some room in my heels. I called over to QVF and showed her my discovery. We both away with the same pairs of shoes, delighted and happy with pig bitch trailing not too far behind to pick up the bill! However, that wasn’t enough for us we needed more!

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    Of course, we didn’t neglect to visit Victoria’s Secret for lingerie and what nots! We deserved it after making this little fat piggy work so hard! He deserved to buy us lingerie. I will be posting a photo set of my in 1 pair of the items I bought. You have to be signed up for my MEMBERS ONLY site at bowtoaspen.net. That is the only place it is going to be available little pigs cucks.

    Pig Funded Dinner

    Our last stop of the night was to fill our bellies. We were starving after spending all of that slave cash. We had dinner at The Palm. I have eaten there once with an old friend of mine. We loved treating ourselves to expensive dinners with wine every weekend. All slave funded of course. Since, QVF is still new to ATL, I wanted to share this place with her as well. We enjoyed Salmon and Lamb Chops while the fatty pig enjoyed veggies. It’s what he needs. He is huge! He doesn’t need anymore fattening foods.

    Oh, the food was delicious. The atmosphere was calming. We had no complaints. The slave pig bitch barely made a peep, which made dinner even better! I know people were wondering what two beautiful Ebony Princesses are even doing with such a pathetic pig loser. However, this pathetic pig loser, paid his way to enjoy our presence today. He earned it.

    Findom Shopping Is A Favorite

    Making losers take me shopping for whatever I is my favorite past time. There is never a time I do not want to spend loser cash and go on a findom shopping spree. It’s one of quickest ways to get a smile on my face. I love the look on his face when he sees the totals. I love how it feels when a little pig is trailing behind me carrying all of my bags. Findom shopping sprees are never going to go out of style fellas.

    So, how do you get to take me on Findom Shopping Spree? Well, it’s easy of course! Send giftcards to hailblackmamba@yahoo.com. You can come to me, fill out the booking application, set a deposit, and take me shopping plus dinner with me right here in ATL. Screening applies with Findom Shopping Sprees as well as regular booking. Safety is a priority.

    Shopaholic

    I can’t promise you that if you bend to my will and become my Findom Shopping Spree sponsor that I will not make it go in the red. I know there are dommes who won’t push you financial budget, but I like seeing you squirm. The best time you will have with me is when you are spending money on me. That is the most pleasing act of service you can do, corn pup. Never forget it! There is no better way to be useful to me than doing exactly the things I enjoy! So, go ahead take me shopping baby!

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    Meal Time, Toilet

    I really miss making #ToiletSlavery clips for my shit eating losers. It has been way too long. Tomorrow’s Podcast will be about Toilet Slavery, so make sure you tune in on these platforms: Itunes, Spotify, Soundcloud. Pissing on losers is something that is an absolute favorite of mine, so of course it has to be featured on the podcast. If you haven’t been tuning in on my podcast, it’s because you haven’t been paying attention. Podcasts are updated weekly! Don’t miss an episode, bitch!

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  • Don’t Want To Pay? Get A Fucking Wife

    I have heard this statement so many time from guys online. It’s truly a baffling statement. I often wonder are these men actively seeking lifestylers or are they purposely bothering women who are charging for their services, products, and time? How annoying is it to see this statement? Very befuddling. I would think if you are going to a place that is selling a product that you want, that you would: expect to pay for it?

    It’s not like you and I would ever meet at a bar and I would choose you. If you are aware of stats, the chances of you even crossing my path without giving me money are 0.00001%. Clearly because life is code and I have coded my shit so I am not contacted in my real life by those who are interested in fetish because I sell fetish. The chances of me meeting someone in my real life who is interested in these things are zero because CODE bitch. Which means I am not looking for fetish in my real life. So, I would rarely come across it in partners I’m dating or even in passing. Which means, I’m doing this for the money. Because, I sell fetish fantasies for money, it’s my career of choice ATM. Which means…what the fuck are you even talking about?

    It seems like you guys are forgetting the fucking code. Let’s be so fucking real, it may hurt, you will never be in my presence for free. You have came across me as a Producer/Pro-Fetish Model/Pro-Femdom. The Pro means I get paid for my time, services, attention given to clients via CASH. I wonder what in seven fucks do you mean, “You’re only in it for the money.” Are you dumb? Or are you stupid? I can’t imagine you being smart, so I didn’t provide that option as a question to ask.

    Literally my face, every time.

    I think guys who are like the examples provided above should put more effort into finding a real girlfriend or wife, or domme who is in the lifestyle and wants to play with them for free. I love my career because I get paid for it. I love my lifestyle because I love my career that I get paid for. I wonder have I ever made this not clear. Did the fact that I have things for sale, promo selling things, mean that I in fact am not here for the CHECK? I am befuddled. This is simple CODE guys. Life is CODING. You bitches really put yourselves in situations where one must really question: “Are men this fucking dumb? or Are do they think they’re above my cash requirements? Or Maybe just dumb?”

    This is why FEMDOM is needed in all men’s lives. I think not having a solid woman guiding men from the beginning of their lives is an impediment to my fucking work. This sense of “not paying for” women’s time is ingrained in every future little loser human male being born on the planet, granted his parents life a morally correct lifetstyle by which the WOMB-MAN is in the lead. Your father couldn’t lead and you cannot lead. You are not built for it. You are built to protect and provide and do. So, why the fuck do you think you are not going to part with your cash when it comes to me?

    It’s almost like a flea. Lol. Fucking annoying, and the dumb bitches multiply so quickly. These foolish ideas of “in it for the money” campaigns roar across the internets and it only exposes how YOU FUCKING FAILED AT PATRIARCHY. Or how the education system has failed you, because WTF DO YOU MEAN? Is McDonald’s in it for the money? I don’t know maybe they actually feed the slop the call food to you to cut COST [money] to take more of your MONEY. And you seem to never complain about that scammin’ ass McDonald’s about “being in it for the money”.

    I have to say, the only men who think this way are men who are on $200 budgets and expect $5000 service. It’s gross. BROKE BITCHES GET A JOB PRO-FETISH AIN’T YA SHIT. It’s time you start looking for someone who you wanna date who is into your lifetstyle. But you’re such a pussy, you want to be two people at once you won’t even EMBRACE YOUR FETISH by finding a woman that is into your shit. A JOKE. Lol.

    Because Goddess Aspen and all those who charge for their time, services, and are participating in this capitalistic system operating their businesses independently will always be in it for the fucking CHECK. Get a CLUE dick beater. Get a wife. LOL.

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  • Wealth Redistribution: The Importance Of Tributing

    I, by no means, hide that all I view you as in this fantasy world is my stepping stone to wealth. I command it from you. I manipulate you out of it. I even compliment my way into your bank account. But what does it all really mean? Am I really in it for the money only and do all of our memories mean nothing together? You may already know the answer: it depends on how much your have sacrificed.

    You see, there is no serving me without practicing Wealth Redistribution actively, willingly, and in obligation to me. It is the building blocks of our relationship. I remember always having what I wanted as a child. Although, I received very little emotional support, I HAD EVERY FUCKING MATERIAL NEED MET. To the point I began to expect that everyone around me pleased me. In a sense, my parents have raised this Bratty Black Goddess you serve now. In a sense, it also made me equate gifts with love. It is my only love language. I will not be convinced to accept less.

    All in all, I seek to give you the gift of knowing how it feels to serve someone who know exactly what they want from you. No need to beat around the bush and pretend that this isn’t about financial power. I lust for it. I will acquire it by any means necessary, even using my powers, my sex, my ALOOF behaviors against you. At times, I find myself relishing in how easy it to get the product [me] to the consumer [you] in such a digital way. I never have to see my victims.

    In July, I pulled my biggest heist yet. A verbal shakedown on a white human male who begged me to fuck his account up. It started with 50. Then 100. I got bored and wanted more. The little girl in me is never satisfied, she always wants to know how much love she can take it. Her love is material wealth. She, this little greedy girl in me, has claimed many victims. I am sure this guy didn’t think I would push it. After I had my teeth sunk in him deep the total was $3,500!!! A big day for Baby Aspen. It only made me want more of him.

    All Tributes Are NOT Posted.

    To find more men who want to give me wealth. I did not have to ask, nor train. I only gave him humiliation. Reminded him that it was natural to want to give me 4 figures in a day because of his predecessors and how horrible they have been on this planet. How his DNA was riddled with genetic trash. That it was me, who the debt would be paid to. How his ancestors would die in their grave if they only knew how he was pissing his inheritance away to me. His hard-earned cash to me. A pretty little black girl home grown in PG County.

    It is not lost on me that my training and education, the OPS System, is reaching the white male population. Obeying, paying, and staying away is completely logical. It is proper wealth redistribution. I even wonder, how much further we can take this education. That is and has always been my goal. A cycle of your wallet to mine. It’s so easy, I wonder if I should just set traps everywhere to catch all of the wallets in my pretty brown lap.

    Imagined if you paid me and never approached me? If you only bought my videos, stroked to me? What if you sent thousands of dollars a month just to be ignored. Your only attention would be via clip sales and deposits. I never speak to you. You never approach. You know it’s because you’re unworthy of actual contact with me. Introducing the Obey-Pay-Stay Away system. In this scheme you do just that. I am a mere fantasy you are funding. Pay, stroke, never approach. 

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    Tributing me is important because it is my fetish. As I rarely am interested in anything you want to talk about because your seriously boring as hell. I cannot find interest in any man who doesn’t shower me with gifts, adoration, and cash. If this hurts your feelings, be angry with your lack of commitment to attain the things you wish to praise. Tribute now or feel empty.

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  • Playing You Like A PS4

     

     

    When you first came to me seeking financial domination I warned you that I would not go easy on you. I told you I would use you like a puppet, a pawn, a mere tool. Do you dare deceive yourself to think that I would actually allow you to ever be anything to me but a tool. You are here to help build my empire. I do not think I have been clear before, but I am sure that in this video, you will indeed understand that this is your true purpose.
    I don’t want a relationship with you. I want you to be a drone. I want you to be a financial tool. I am going to program you into my ass wallet, my toilet bitch ATM, my lonely paying bitch. I demand constant sacrifice. I am incomphrehensibly selfish. If I could care about you, I’d put a price on it and make you pay it.
    Every sacrifice you give me must be shiny, must be strictly financial. That is your worship. Fresh poison delivered to your bloodstream every weekend. You don’t deserve to be pimped out this well but you are so willing. Such a devoted victim.

     

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  • Wednesday Thoughts

    It is a grievance to expect man to do what he should be doing. He has too many options and choices to choose from. It is easy to deviate from his natural compass. Human males, should keep their purpose in their head’s and heart’s. You are not a submissive if you have blocks about submission. True submissives are laying their dominance to their side for the exchange of power. I have little interest in training human males, personally unless they can provide proper service. If you cannot provide proper, full service to me, I start to question who you are, as at that point you also do not know.

    I am so interested in training any slaves for free. Even if this was not my job and it was my lifestyle I cannot bring myself to be around so many, unattractive specimens of men for free. In fact, most of you because of societal program believe you have a fair shot. Humble yourself, bitch. I will never do anything for you without compensation. You may call it financial domination if you want but don’t be so delusional that you believe that a woman like me would entertain you without compensation. If we were in the street together, no one would believe that I chose you, so be realistic about yourself.

    None of you are my type. Most of you are caucasians which prohibit me from ever being attracted to you because of your race’s poor track record on this planet. Be real, know why you’re here, and be on purpose.  Do not think that you can access me so easily. Follow the OPS System, buy clips, read my blog, and familiarize yourself because I am skillful at ignoring you.