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Welcome to the domain of Goddess Aspen Aires, a distinguished figure in the world of Femdom. Known for her commanding presence and intuitive understanding of power dynamics, Aspen Aires is a master in the art of domination. Her approach combines intellect, psychological insight, and a deep respect for the consensual exchange of power. Goddess Aspen Aires prides herself on creating bespoke experiences for her subjects. She excels in understanding and fulfilling deep-seated desires, all within the bounds of safety, consent, and mutual respect. Her style is a blend of strict discipline and seductive persuasion, making each encounter a unique journey into the realms of domination and submission.

Black Dominance Vs Your Version Of Dominance

I’ve always had an issue with the idea that in order for a man to feel a woman is powerful, that he must feel emasculated by her or humiliated by her. I find that type of dominance to be very European and versioned with colonizing undertones. I say this because, Black Women, are dominant by nature. Never needing to degrade, nor explicitly scold, nor control to get the job done. Most blessed with a Black Mother know this. Naturally, when a Black Woman is secure, in her power, there is never a need to resort to such tactics. Surprisingly, people around her know this as well, i.e white men.

Your male idea of Dominance is missing a key component: you are lower because I am higher. There is no need for me to demonstrate the over you. It is what it is. It is simple logic. 1+1=2, every time. No one every disputes this. I did not make these rules. If you got off your ass, went outside for fresh air, look into to nature you’d see: BROWN & BLACK is are the symbols of dominance on THIS PLANET, second to GREEN. I have heard 90% of my white human male clients say “Black Women are so strong, dominant, powerful.” Who taught them that?

They are watching and they secretly envy our natural ability to get others to bow down. I may enjoy degrading you, but that’s not dominance. It is a result of my Dominance over you in relation to the gift of submission received by you.

 

Why Black Women Demonstrate Domination Differently?

I simply never saw my Mother in all my life disrespect my Father nor degrade him to get him to be submissive to her. She did not need to wield dominating power over him because it was clear, she was in charge. In return, my Father always had a clean home with home cooked meals because he never challenged that. You see, dominance is not demonstrated with words, it is demonstrated with actions. You are either dominant or you are not. I come from a long lineage of powerful, strong dominant women. I have never seen such pathetic examples of how men currently view submission. I am disgusted.

Black women demonstrate true dominance, not a front of what dominance is. The male idea of dominance has been transferred into what Feminine Dominance look like. If you need examples of what Feminine Dominance is, I suggest you research Michelle Obama, Beyonce, Maxine Waters, Whitney Houston, Aretha Franklin. These women, who are strong, soft, and feminine. However, they are dominant women. Dominanting every thing they ever did. While being black and graceful and humble. Do you think their dominance is ever in question by the men by their side? Do you think they emasculate their men to get what they need?

You Have No Idea What True Dominance Looks Like

To men, domination looks very violent. It is very degrading. It’s because they have no idea what domination and true submission looks like. These ideas of this type of dominance stem from European ideals of conquering, male hood, and also ideas about women that are only based on personal male inadequacies. A man believes taking control of a situation is to become aggressive or violent. Meanwhile, I do nothing to control these men but allow them to my presence. Am I not more powerful than you?

A Goddess in my eyes helps men evolve. My point is constantly proven about the weakness and error of men. How Femdom is a way to help men evolve. Far from it is it about male idea’s of D/S. To me their programmed to be to complete opposite from a true version of Dominance. In fact, male domination is very destructive. So, while I enjoy humiliating men to bring on Cathartic release, my main priority is educating them. To help them find power in their submission. He who submit is powerful. He is the one giving the gift of submission.

What Black Femdom Is

Black Femdom is about service. It is about evolution. It is about exploring yourself as man. I simply cannot continue to bore myself with loser jerking off in my ear and going into the world being mediocre. I am losing interests in the low-vibrational conversations I am having with men. Men who wonder why they are continually unhappy in their own lives. It is simple, you were never meant to be on top. In antiquity, my ancestors understood the importance of Matriarchy and submission to women, reverence for them. Colonization has bleached culture, true relationships, and identity from human males. It blocks them from achieving true intimacy. That is why all males should serve a Black Femdom.

I have said before, I do not identify as a Dominatrix. I’m not here to get paid to be an actor for your puppet show Femdom. I truly enjoy true versions of male submission. No, male submission does not mean be a pussy or a bitch. I tell you, my Father, was very submissive, but he would break your fucking jaw, if you disrespected his home and family. Men must understand that their best way to serve women is by pleasing them & protecting them. Until men understand what dominance and submission is outside of their negative connotations and perversion they will never be happy. They will never find a satisfying relationship.

Conclusion

Men who want to be truly enlightened on the service of women should seek out serving Black Women, first. Especially if they are white men. There is a lot of education and evolution involved in white male service to Black Women. You will get to experience Feminine Dominance. To understand why we are so strong, you must witness it. I truly hate having to berate my slaves to get things done. I truly despise men who try to challenge me into domming them. That’s not how Black Dominance is demonstrated.

Updates

I have updated my podcast, so make sure you check that out. It covers how to identify what kind of sub you are and what types of subs I like. I always prefer men who do their research on me. This is a sign of effort. I do not respect men who do not put in effort. I have no energy for those types. My last blog post spoke about Femdom Patriarchy, it is a good read. It is connected to this piece. It actually helped produce it. I am on AVN stars now, so I will make sure I am uploading the last 3 months of content there.

January 2020, I will be deleting ALL content from 2015-2017 from my clip stores. If you would like to purchase these clips, they will only be available for individual purchase on my website. So, expect a new page to be added to my website.

November 1st-7th Clip Updates & Travel Updates

Travel Updates

On October 15-17th, I will be visiting Charlotte, NC to learn how to properly whip white men by Bart Syren. I met him when I first started renting from Atlanta Dungeon. He promised to teach me how to whip and wrangle men like a pro. Earlier this last month, I took his offer. So, of course, you are allowed to book during this time! Catch me if you fucking can. Also, the clips we produce will of course be available on all of my platforms!

Clip Updates

Christian Beatdown

We found out that your father, the pastor of our church, is a down low racist. One evening he asked Nolia D. & I to go in his office and search for his glasses and we found it all. We found all of the racist contraband your father is hiding from the congregation. What really is disappointing is your father preaches so much of love every Sunday, yet holds so much hate in his heart. So, we are going to expose him. But first, we are going to beat you the fuck up for your racist father. Next, we are going to record you exposing your father for the whole church to see next Sunday. Finally, you’re going to keep getting beat up by us and you’re dad is going to have to pay us to not post this video everywhere exposing him for the racist evangelical fuck he is.

Toilet Slavery Compilation

Contains the following:

Your New Life As A Toilet [1080]

Toilet Delivery Services Inc 1080p

Toilets are toilets. They are cold and full of . Do you really think a toilet deserves to be treated like a real human? No! Of course not. You don’t get kisses, hugs. You’re mouth is a , no woman would want to kiss you if they knew what I knew about you. Being a toilet is one of the highest forms of humiliation. You aren’t allowed to be anything else to me but a toilet. If I ever need to p oo you’ll be around to consume. You’re a eater and you do not deserve to enjoy the liberties of actually being close to a woman. 

Thank you for joining the Toilet Delivery Service Team. You will be a toilet for all of the local women in our area. These women no longer want to use toilets are a way to eliminate waste from their homes. They want to choose the economic way to flush their turds down. What better than to use human males are garbage dumpsters. We are looking for s c a t fetishists only

Begging To Be My Toilet

Lord have mercy on your pitiful soul. I sold you some of my brownies and now you want to get it right from the source don’t you? Lol. Well no worries, I will give you what you want since I am such a devious little Ebony Goddess, I enjoy seeing you enjoying being humiliated. Sadistic little Goddess, aren’t I? Yes, that I am. So open wide little one, I am going to put my chocolate frostie allll on your tongue and tonsils!Category: TOILET SLAVERY

My Perfect Ebony Feet vs Your Wife

My perfect ebony soles are way more satisfying to serve than your marriage. Considering you are married to the most basic form of woman, I can see how you would get bored of her. I mean outside of your white conversations, there is no depth. So, you find yourself here always at my feet paying for my attention. However, you only get feet white bitch. You love being denied by me. You love when I say no. The way it hits your ears when I tell you, “Pay more for my feet, that’s all I give you to beat your tiny white meat” drives you nuts. My face even look better than her white, pale face. Again and again you examine and watch my feet. I don’t allow you to put your lips on them because, ew, gross. NO!

Titty Mind Control

My breast control your tiny little brain. You are addicted to my plump, ebony chest. Listen to my voice and fall into a trance. Soon, you will be wanting to be denied by my tits all of the time. Paying just to be denied the sight of them. The goal is to get you so addicted to tit denial, that you don’t even get hard for tits, you get hard for blurred nipples. Ha

Never Say No

Never say no to me. Give me whatever I want and be left with nothing. This is not about you. This about proving your worth to someone who does not even care you exist. You should be performing for me daily, competing for my affection. What’s going to happen when someone out spends you? Don’t you get it? My attention is for the highest bidder. The one who sacrifices the most and need the least. The one who gives selflessly. Do you fit into any of those categories? Make no mistake, there is nothing of you that interests me. If it weren’t for capitalism, there would be less of a chance for you to even see me. However, in this system, you must pay to play. And, I promise you I will never be satisfied with what you give until you give with all your heart and remove your desires completely from me.

Announcement Betas: AVN STARS

Listen up betas! I signed up to a new place that you can subscribe to where you can see ALL of my content, exclusive photo sets, see me on live cam, and tribute me money! I have been hearing so much about this platform. Today, was the day I decided to finally finish my account set up, add my business details. and my bank info. I am officially on AVN STARS.

AVN Is The New Twitter

My favorite part of AS is it’s live camming feature. I previously had Modelcentro as a membership platform that included cam. However, what I like about AS vs MC is, AS is very similar to twitter. Which means, you can see my free posts & when you subscribe you see my hidden content and live cam shows. It’s the community feel that I enjoy. Not to mention that so far, it seems that I can post my piss content without interruption! Piss on cam maybe?

Why This May Be The Most Secure Place For Me

As social media continues to push Entertainers Who Are Trained In Male Human Sexual Psych/Behavior off their platforms, this will be a more secure place to find me in the coming years! It is for entertainers such as myself, free of sexorship. You can follow me for free. It cost zero bucks to join. However, in order to see all of my HOT content, you’re going to have to sign up! Which comes to my next topic: “what the fuck is going to happen to my Onlyfans now that I have the more secure platform that pays people on time?”

I’m so glad that you asked. I am going to keep my OF for awhile. I currently have little subscribers ATM. I will still be uploading to both platforms. It will just be cooler over on AVN.

PornHub

I also am going to be uploading my content to PH more frequently along with previews. Please remember, that is you are on my mailing list, you get first dibs on these preview sample packs, along with sample mp3s, and special offers from me! I recently uploaded my last 7 clip previews. You can check them out right HERE.

Patriarchal Femdom

What is Patriarchial FemDom?

Patriarchial Femdom: when men are inserting their fetishes; their ideas of servitude of women; and their service to women that are based on male-centered ideologies, fetishes, with an unbending focus on Big Black Cock Worship.

Examples Of Patriachial Femdom, Today

A prime example of Patriarchial Femdom is the focus of topics such as: Forced Bi. Cuckolding, and Sissification. My conclusions are these: 1) men do not like women; 2) male ideas of Female Domination mostly involve the woman pegging him with a male sex organ that is not native to her, this is the main way men claim to “submit” to women; 3) ALL men have an unhealthy obsession, especially white men, with BBC.

Female Domination by definition is about Women being dominant over men, getting what they way out of them. I am constantly being asked to perform acts of covert faggotry for human males under the guise of Female Domination. The wingman narrative is becoming exhausting and I’m over it.

What Is Service?

I respect men who are not conflating serving me with wanting to fulfill a fantasy. I truly despise hearing the words, “I just wanna serve you Goddess.” Simple because, the only way that I really want to be served is you giving my money, buying content, buying phone calls.

A pathetic bitch like you, would love to hear that I want you to serve me by licking my pussy, my ass, my boots, or whatever you want to lick. When you ask the question, “How can I serve you Goddess?” my interest is getting as much money from you as possible. What fucking else would I want from you? If you were smart you would realize that I would like you more, the more you focused on pleasing me. Yet, you’re dumb as fuck and focused on dick all day long, faggot.

The Constant Down-Low Faggotry

Patriarchy has caused a lot of men to live lives that are not real lives. Most of the men who I interact with in these scene call to discuss sucking cock, especially BBC. BBC, which has nothing to do with me, a Female Dominant. Why the fuck even bring it up? The obsession with black dick is alarming. Most of these men are also in the closet about their faggot desires.

I do not respect men using FemDom as a way to feel less shame about their secret sexuality. As I have said numerous times, I do not have a penis, naturally. When coming to serve me it’s about serving ME. I’m not interested in strap-on play unless it is used to humiliate you, for my pleasure, or to sexually dominate you. I do not have a penis. I am all woman. My strap is a commission of my dominance in this relationship and not about you wanting to be “pegged” or not.

The way their male centered Female Domination comes into play is when they are asking for anal penetration as the main way of serving a woman. It’s in no way related. Pegging in my opinion is a result of serving your Female Dominant, properly. This constant idea that men have with Femdom & Strap On, to me proves why ALL males need correction.

What is Female Domination?

Female Domination in it’s truest form is women dominating men with their natural assets. There is no hard work involved in doing this. Males do not require much to be dominated by women. They are easy to control. Female Domination does not require force, degradation, nor constant humiliation to be effective. But, when men are left to decide what Female Domination is we have what we have currently: a mass production of Patriarchal Femdom porn.

I have no interest in demonstrating what male humans believe Female Domination is in my relationships with men. I do not have to beat you down to prove my dominance over you. How I demonstrate my dominance is not indicative of your needs nor wants. Although, I may enjoy the casual verbal humiliation, the degradation of your human person, I truly do not feel that that is an embodiment of true Dominance. It is a result and an addition of it. If Female Dominance were up to you, no woman would ever experience true pleasure ever.

I do not respect men using me as an object for their fantasies under the motto of “serving me”. I would much prefer male human be upfront with their intentions to create a fantasy with me saying, “Goddess, I want to know what your interests are to see if I can create a fantasy with you.” This is not deception, this is honesty. You in no way, are using Femdom as a guise to jerk your dick. This statement helps me recognize you as a fetishist, not a submissive.

The Exchange

What is missed on most slaves is the exchange. The lack of interests in what she wants to talk about or demonstrate. It’s unbalanced. It is solely based on men fulfilling their desires constantly, to no end. Rarely is there ever education on why it is important to serve a Female Dominant. How life changing that experience can be. This exchange is not about a power exchange at all, if men are still getting what they want for very little effort.

Men in this scene rarely have an interest in serving FemDoms truly because it looks like a fetish factory with bitches in leather being mean to men. I tell you what true dominance looks like: doing anything & everything to please WOMEN. If men grasped the idea that pleasing a woman first, would include pleasing themselves, they would do it.

But as I have said before, they have brought their patriarchal ideas of women into Femdom. It is of no interest of me to require anything but cash as service to me when it comes to being my slave. If as a result of your constant service in cash, I choose to grant you a fantasy, it will happen. The main requirement to serve me is effort. Buying my clips, calling my NF everyday, sending tributes. These things are service.

Conclusion

If men are going to be in the sphere of Female Domination, they should understand that this part of the game has nothing to do with them. They should understand that dick worship has no place here. Serve women or die. Because to me, in my experience, it seems men do not even like women. Their obsession with dicks and getting them own selves off is a result of patriarchy and it’s time to call it out. The corrections must be made as we move into this new paradigm.

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Hello, Pay Pigs & Humble Paying Toilets: My Houston Trip

I have returned from my Houston trip. I enjoyed it. You were desperately waiting for another update from me. You’ve been craving to devour more of my literature. Did you miss your Queen Princess weak, paying bitch? Of course you did. You have the opportunity to re-imburse my Perry’s Dinner. It would be foolish to miss out on the opportunity to please me. Sorry to those men.

My Houston Trip

I visited The Menil Collection with Goddess Nolia Darling. It was a wonderful experience. The art was beautiful. The Collection hosted many pieces from the Congo, Angola, that to me, I felt personally connected to. For example, there were several items that were from Africa that were simple titled, “Power Figure”. The object I felt super close to, has a monkey skull in it, with the skull embedded in what looked like bronzed wire netting. Unfortunately, I did not keep the brochure so I forget it’s exact materials. Those power figures had a powerful aura to them. I wanted them in my home. For this reason, you little pay pig bitch, will be making sure you add authentic African art to my home. However, I regrettably wish I caught had time to visit The Museum of African American Culture.

queen black mamba visiting the menil collection, femdom, financial domination

Filming With Nolia & Giantess Crew

Filming with Nolia Darling is always a pleasure. I filmed with Nolia Darling last year. That content is available for you pig bitch losers, so go check those out. My Domme girlfriends and I have one commone interest always: taking money from bitches like you on the internet & turning boy brains into mush. It’s never a hard-task since you’re going to always pay and you’ll always be easy! I have not edited those clips yet. However, they will be up this week. We filmed your favorite clips of course: toilet slavery, chastity, and white boy beatdowns. Joining my OF, allows you to have access to all my content, plus exclusive never before seen photosets and clips that are BANNED from ALL major clip sites!

Next, I filmed with QVF and Giantess Crew. I rarely have any VORE content in my stores. So, I wanted to expand my library and collab with a VORE producer. Filming with GC was so much fun. I had no idea eating small little tiny men or stomping them out with my feet would be so satisfying. You can watch my clips I filmed for him here. I am not sure when they will debut, so if VORE is your thing, just keep checking his store out. Luckily for you, my VORE clip will be updated this week along with 4 other HOT clips.

Task Time

I have updated you on my travels and given you a little piece of me. Now, I want you to give me what I want. The following are mandatory tasks that must be completed to gain favor with me or keep favor with me as my pay pig cash bitch and/or toilet wallet.

  1. Go buy 10 clips from my SpoiledEbonyPrincess.com clip store
  2. Order a custom this month via www.INeedHer.com
  3. Send me a love letter, tell me how amazing I am, and how pretty I am, how you’re so luck, blah blah blah
  4. Send a photo of yourself sending me $100 tribute to www.INeedHer.com
  5. Give me a phone call this week, talk for 15 minutes with me, and get 3 FREE minutes, samples of the 4 NEW HOT UPCOMING RELEASES this week.
  6. Don’t talk to me unless you send me money

NEW RELEASES

Spoil The Ebony Princess: Dinner Re-imbursement OP

Visiting Houston currently. Last night, I went to dinner with my girlfriend Queen Veiny Feet. We went to Perry’s Steakhouse. It was okay as far as food quality. I didn’t enjoy it as much as I should have. It was overpriced for food that was below my standards. I expect you to spoil me and cover my mistakes.

Food Quality

The crab cake had hot sauce in it! WTF, why? The mash potatoes had a weird after taste. Plus, they over cooked my food. I asked for a medium well steak, good a WELL WELL DONE . I just wished I made a better choice but at a Steakhouse you would think they would be able to cook a fucking steak. However, my Chardonnay was the saving grace. I really fucking am grateful for those two glasses.

Service

When I received the bill it was $129, that did not include my tip. I did tip of course, because that’s rude as fuck. However, the food wasn’t that good. Our serve was okay, I wasn’t impressed. I just can’t imagine taking this L, like this. I may stomp my feet and wail like a brat until someone makes up for my mistake, IDK.

Reimbursement OP

A good boy is going to reimburse me for Perry’s sub-par quality food. I should’ve just gotten salmon, because you can’t fuck that up!
I am now passing that responsibility to you. Pay for food you didn’t get to eat, nor did you get to taste the dissatisfaction of it because I took the L for us, LOL. T’was a big loss for Houston for me. I know that so many of you are eager to pay for my things and make me happy. It’s important to make sure that I take no losses. You absorb them for me.

You can cover Perry’s Steak Houses mistake by tributing here, here, or here. Love you wallet boy.

My Dinner From Shit Perry’s Steakhouse IN Houston, TX

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