Month: August 2018

My Solar Return: August 29th 2018

I finally finished paying off these photos from Celebrate Your Sexy. The photographer is Brandy Lopez. I have included her IG for models who may want to shoot with her. She doesn’t charge that much, the company is the one who fucked me. HA! And as much as I love them, I love them so much, I will never ever pay 1.6k for a photo shoot again. I just didn’t want to not have my photos so I got most of my photos and these two edited prints. I love them, but they were so expensive! These arrived on my birthday and honestly, it was the best birthday gift.

On my birthday, I called my sub, Butters, which a few of you have seen in my clips to take me to dinner, buy me lunch and be my bitch. It was really a good time. I got so drunk off this German beer, I have no fucking idea what the name of it is, but it was 8.7% and I have at least 4 of them! Fucking right, I did 26 the right way. Yes, I am 26, not 21. I know I advertise as 21, but now that I am at my age, I think I will just continue to let pervs think I’m 21 forever. Fuck them. HA!

My birthday was great. I feel like I have come a long way from when I first started this business at 23. I had no idea where I would be. Of course, the first few years I am paying off debts, but I still would not want to have any other work to do. The week before my birthday was extremely emotional. I lost friendships in July, a relationship the following month. It was so hard the week before my solar return. However, the light came through to shine on me. It was like I came out of a storm into a grassy field where I finally started to see my flowers bloom.

Summer time is always a slow time for models, but I got through it. It was frustrating but knowing that I have true supporters in my life made it better. I submitted the rest of the photos to a magazine, so if they love my photos I’ll be published very soon. On Sunday I have my first foot party with Tipsytoesatlanta. I will be finally getting out of the house! Lord, being in this industry is very isolating so it would be so great to get out and meet new girls.

If you’re in the ATL area and love my toes, you can be my foot bitch. HA! Links are included to the information you need: here.

My Pleasure, Not His Pleasure

“My Pleasure Is All That Matters HERE.”

-Queen Black Mamba, Goddess Aspen Aires

 

I enjoy being admired, doted on, received, and appreciated. Pleasing Me is very simple and it requires very little effort on your part because you’ll want to do this. You are in fact begging to do this one thing: give Me pleasure. Isn’t that what you say to Me often in that pathetic, weak voice: “i want to please You Goddess Aspen.” The ultimate form of submission is giving pleasure to the receiver of the submitter’s presence.  It is not about the submissive earning anything nor receiving anything in exchange for that honor to submit. The submitter wants to give the receiver, the dominant, pleasure. That is  my definition of submission.

The idea of provoking Me into giving you punishment for your pleasure is pathetically deplorable at most. Forced submission, which many of you would like Me to do perform in your way, gets quite old.  It is only proves that you should be ignored. It shows you are not a true submissive in my eyes. I therefore, cannot mold you into My Image. I, after making My rules crystal clear to you, should never have to punish. Simply because it does bring Me pleasure to do so. In fact, the only punishment for this lack of care for My pleasure is cutting you off from My source energy.

Being My submissive means that you are to focus only on deeds that you know will please Me. As you place yourself into true submission, finding things that earn My pleasure are not hard to find are there? For example, you would ask yourself: “What would please Goddess Aspen?” This would then lead to thoughts that truly pleasure a woman like I.  The only conclusion from here is that you must earn this opportunity to give Me Pleasure. My attention  to you becomes more tolerable when you have earned the pleasure of serving Me.

My pleasure is all that matters in this transaction. I am selfish, greedy, mean, sarcastic, intelligent, penetrating, and, most of all: smarter than you. I am designed to be pleased. your only sake for attention lies in how best you can please me.  If you must ask, then ask. If you cannot fulfil, you have the options of coming back when you can or finding another to accommodate you.  Female domination/ FLR is not about your one dimensional ideas of pleasure that are cock focused.

Isn’t it annoying, always wondering: “What will i get?” It is even more annoying to approached in that energy from a human male who is cock focused. Being focused on your pleasures only gets you so far in life. Learning how to focus on pleasuring the dominant will grant you more gratification and bliss. The kind of contentment and revelry that can only be experienced when serving a Dominant Woman. A woman who is in control of Her pleasure will seek to guide you to complete understanding of your own.

The option is always yours. you can choose to be a loser in bed as you have always been. A floor humper, a mere boot licker, a hypno-bitch. However, if those sexual perversions are always only in the name of your jerk off, spank bank theater behind your brain, how happy could you really be? I mean, does licking My boots or giving me money, eating your cum, sucking black cock really matter to you, if I am not finding pleasure in it? Seriously, ask yourself this question. If I am not finding pleasure in your acts of submission, how good could the experience be for you?

you’d simply just be confirming that you are a just loser who needs to jerk off. it cannot think of anything other than blowing it’s load. A pathetic male human, emptying it’s dick. And if I view you this way, I cannot accept you ever. It doesn’t bring Me pleasure to associate with those types.  Focus only on My pleasure to earn your own pleasure. It’s very, very simple. Never think eating your cum, playing with your ass, or sucking cock is pleasurable to Me just because you’re a loser who likes doing weird shit.  As we have already discussed to pleasure a Woman like me you must: earn it.

My tolerance of you comes  only when you earn it. It shows you are focused on pleasuring Me. you’re Focused on earning My time and attention. All other things should be set aside. Never expect me to entertain your cock fantasies. I do them out of My own pleasure, on My own time. you have to focus on earning my time. There is no shortage of losers just like you, who always want my time & attention. I could always delete you at anytime if you do not want to give Me absolute pleasure.

 

The Entitled Types: The Most Desperate/Pathetic Human Males I Know

 

These examples show you what not to do in my chatroom. How to never approach me ever, ever in life. I will outline this for you very carefully, so that you can fully grasp the context of how serious I am about not even deeming these types of men worthy of my attention.

This behavior is desperate and embarrassing. Always remember that I am a female dominant. I do not exist to pleasure you. Yet, you exist to pleasure me and entertain me. Now, as you see Jimier, was our first entitled cunt.
I never care about your dick. So, why mention it? I only care about how you are going become my toy to please me. Mentioning your dick or it’s size does nothing to move me. It only shows that you are entitled, selfish, and more than likely a liar. I remind him simply, that his dick will never be a pleasure to look at. Does he think he dick is more appealing to look at than me? Another irritation of mine is these losers are always focused on the wrong thing: their dicks and not focusing on me. They believe their dick size makes then special and that because of that I take them down a size. Reminding them their dicks are never special.

Of course his male ego cannot take this, he exits. This is male entitlement and male bitterness at its finest. This is male pathetic-ness. It does nothing for me, it only makes me want to block you from my presence.

Moving on to dfadams, this special kind of entitlement is a man who thinks because I am Femdom that I enjoy his faggot fantasies. Notice he did not even, come in my room with a hello. When I told him to properly greet me with a hello he replied with a pathetic “humiliate me”.  Why should I, as great and unattainable to the common slave, entertain a loser who cannot properly greet me? However, losers will pay me for mistakes either way. If they cannot follow suit I am paid either way. If they do not follow my rules, I simply block, they do not stay long in my presence either way.

The interesting thing about ALL of these losers was that they did not follow my very simple rule: “Talk to me before going private. Read my profile.” This lack of initiative is unappealing and collecting money from such losers is less satisfying than collecting money from losers who listen.

Completely disregarding nor taking the initiative to read a profile that any Goddess has available for your consumption, to help you interact respectfully, shows entitlement. When truly, you are the one pathetically looking for attention from a woman who would never, otherwise pay attention to you. Do these three examples of disgust, really believe attractive women are running around looking to see their inadequate penises or shove docks down their throats?

If it were so, why would they be here looking to pay for attention? Such are men are delusional in real and fantasy life. They exhibit these same qualities in public and private: a disdain for following rules because they feel their needs should be given a fuck about by those who they are also seeking/paying to get attention from. Do you see the conundrum? The irony and foolishness? Lol yes, you do. Lol.

In fact, my new rule is to simple kick anyone who goes to private without speaking to me, first.  Simply, because it has been written in my profile/topic for those who take initiative. The incompetent, entitled bitch has already proven he is incompetent of giving me money and enriching my life. He is not worthy of it. I will block these guys without remorse. I do not need to collect their resources. Their resources are grief-worthy as these types only care to serve their own fetishes.

They should really go to a dungeon and rent-a-domme. That would be more pleasing for these types. There is a solution for whores like this who do not seek to really be submissive & respectful of my wishes. Ha! However, my attention is for good boys who follow rules. Only boys who follow rules are worthy to transfer their wealth to me.  I am in no rush to acquire the wealth from losers who will not do it on my terms. Never think your cash is king. Let go of any entitlement you think you deserve to have. Those desires get you no where in my chat room.

Never For You

You know what? God created me to maintain the natural order of this planet. If it was meant to be you, you would have the power to create & destroy. However, you only have the power to wank off. It’s pathetic, it’s common. You’re predictable and unless you plan on fucking men & being a faggot for the rest of your life, you will always be my little fucking toy

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