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Black Dominance Vs Your Version Of Dominance

I’ve always had an issue with the idea that in order for a man to feel a woman is powerful, that he must feel emasculated by her or humiliated by her. I find that type of dominance to be very European and versioned with colonizing undertones. I say this because, Black Women, are dominant by nature. Never needing to degrade, nor explicitly scold, nor control to get the job done. Most blessed with a Black Mother know this. Naturally, when a Black Woman is secure, in her power, there is never a need to resort to such tactics. Surprisingly, people around her know this as well, i.e white men.

Your male idea of Dominance is missing a key component: you are lower because I am higher. There is no need for me to demonstrate the over you. It is what it is. It is simple logic. 1+1=2, every time. No one every disputes this. I did not make these rules. If you got off your ass, went outside for fresh air, look into to nature you’d see: BROWN & BLACK is are the symbols of dominance on THIS PLANET, second to GREEN. I have heard 90% of my white human male clients say “Black Women are so strong, dominant, powerful.” Who taught them that?

They are watching and they secretly envy our natural ability to get others to bow down. I may enjoy degrading you, but that’s not dominance. It is a result of my Dominance over you in relation to the gift of submission received by you.

 

Why Black Women Demonstrate Domination Differently?

I simply never saw my Mother in all my life disrespect my Father nor degrade him to get him to be submissive to her. She did not need to wield dominating power over him because it was clear, she was in charge. In return, my Father always had a clean home with home cooked meals because he never challenged that. You see, dominance is not demonstrated with words, it is demonstrated with actions. You are either dominant or you are not. I come from a long lineage of powerful, strong dominant women. I have never seen such pathetic examples of how men currently view submission. I am disgusted.

Black women demonstrate true dominance, not a front of what dominance is. The male idea of dominance has been transferred into what Feminine Dominance look like. If you need examples of what Feminine Dominance is, I suggest you research Michelle Obama, Beyonce, Maxine Waters, Whitney Houston, Aretha Franklin. These women, who are strong, soft, and feminine. However, they are dominant women. Dominanting every thing they ever did. While being black and graceful and humble. Do you think their dominance is ever in question by the men by their side? Do you think they emasculate their men to get what they need?

You Have No Idea What True Dominance Looks Like

To men, domination looks very violent. It is very degrading. It’s because they have no idea what domination and true submission looks like. These ideas of this type of dominance stem from European ideals of conquering, male hood, and also ideas about women that are only based on personal male inadequacies. A man believes taking control of a situation is to become aggressive or violent. Meanwhile, I do nothing to control these men but allow them to my presence. Am I not more powerful than you?

A Goddess in my eyes helps men evolve. My point is constantly proven about the weakness and error of men. How Femdom is a way to help men evolve. Far from it is it about male idea’s of D/S. To me their programmed to be to complete opposite from a true version of Dominance. In fact, male domination is very destructive. So, while I enjoy humiliating men to bring on Cathartic release, my main priority is educating them. To help them find power in their submission. He who submit is powerful. He is the one giving the gift of submission.

What Black Femdom Is

Black Femdom is about service. It is about evolution. It is about exploring yourself as man. I simply cannot continue to bore myself with loser jerking off in my ear and going into the world being mediocre. I am losing interests in the low-vibrational conversations I am having with men. Men who wonder why they are continually unhappy in their own lives. It is simple, you were never meant to be on top. In antiquity, my ancestors understood the importance of Matriarchy and submission to women, reverence for them. Colonization has bleached culture, true relationships, and identity from human males. It blocks them from achieving true intimacy. That is why all males should serve a Black Femdom.

I have said before, I do not identify as a Dominatrix. I’m not here to get paid to be an actor for your puppet show Femdom. I truly enjoy true versions of male submission. No, male submission does not mean be a pussy or a bitch. I tell you, my Father, was very submissive, but he would break your fucking jaw, if you disrespected his home and family. Men must understand that their best way to serve women is by pleasing them & protecting them. Until men understand what dominance and submission is outside of their negative connotations and perversion they will never be happy. They will never find a satisfying relationship.

Conclusion

Men who want to be truly enlightened on the service of women should seek out serving Black Women, first. Especially if they are white men. There is a lot of education and evolution involved in white male service to Black Women. You will get to experience Feminine Dominance. To understand why we are so strong, you must witness it. I truly hate having to berate my slaves to get things done. I truly despise men who try to challenge me into domming them. That’s not how Black Dominance is demonstrated.

Updates

I have updated my podcast, so make sure you check that out. It covers how to identify what kind of sub you are and what types of subs I like. I always prefer men who do their research on me. This is a sign of effort. I do not respect men who do not put in effort. I have no energy for those types. My last blog post spoke about Femdom Patriarchy, it is a good read. It is connected to this piece. It actually helped produce it. I am on AVN stars now, so I will make sure I am uploading the last 3 months of content there.

January 2020, I will be deleting ALL content from 2015-2017 from my clip stores. If you would like to purchase these clips, they will only be available for individual purchase on my website. So, expect a new page to be added to my website.

Pussy Traitor

It seems that Femdom has become a reflection of male human desires and not about serving women. Today, we reflect on why you don’t matter. Why your fantasies don’t matter. We talk about how you’re using Femdom as a way to segway into faggotry. Understand that sucking dick is not native to my superior feminine form. I do not naturally have a dick, but you naturally have a g-spot in your asshole. Penetration is for you. However, not by deformed reproductive systems like male organs. No, by a pegging device. Me pegging you establishes my known dominion over you. It’s not for your pleasure, it is to show DOMINANCE.

As there is nothing dominant about you, pegging is not about being a faggot. It’s not about your weird obsession with big black dick. No, you get pegged because I’m the top and you’re the bottom and sex with my pussy is unavailable to you. So, I fuck your inside pussy until you cum because you are my bitch. In no way are you to be thinking about a man while doing this because that is a violation. I am not interested in men who want to serve men and not women. Calling me to talk about your obsession with dick is a no,no. Let’s discuss pegging and why it’s virtually all about submission. When you begin to understand this, you may start to understand how important it is to forget your dick worship. Worship pussy. Worship superior reproductive systems.

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My Pleasure, Not His Pleasure

“My Pleasure Is All That Matters HERE.”

-Queen Black Mamba, Goddess Aspen Aires

 

I enjoy being admired, doted on, received, and appreciated. Pleasing Me is very simple and it requires very little effort on your part because you’ll want to do this. You are in fact begging to do this one thing: give Me pleasure. Isn’t that what you say to Me often in that pathetic, weak voice: “i want to please You Goddess Aspen.” The ultimate form of submission is giving pleasure to the receiver of the submitter’s presence.  It is not about the submissive earning anything nor receiving anything in exchange for that honor to submit. The submitter wants to give the receiver, the dominant, pleasure. That is  my definition of submission.

The idea of provoking Me into giving you punishment for your pleasure is pathetically deplorable at most. Forced submission, which many of you would like Me to do perform in your way, gets quite old.  It is only proves that you should be ignored. It shows you are not a true submissive in my eyes. I therefore, cannot mold you into My Image. I, after making My rules crystal clear to you, should never have to punish. Simply because it does bring Me pleasure to do so. In fact, the only punishment for this lack of care for My pleasure is cutting you off from My source energy.

Being My submissive means that you are to focus only on deeds that you know will please Me. As you place yourself into true submission, finding things that earn My pleasure are not hard to find are there? For example, you would ask yourself: “What would please Goddess Aspen?” This would then lead to thoughts that truly pleasure a woman like I.  The only conclusion from here is that you must earn this opportunity to give Me Pleasure. My attention  to you becomes more tolerable when you have earned the pleasure of serving Me.

My pleasure is all that matters in this transaction. I am selfish, greedy, mean, sarcastic, intelligent, penetrating, and, most of all: smarter than you. I am designed to be pleased. your only sake for attention lies in how best you can please me.  If you must ask, then ask. If you cannot fulfil, you have the options of coming back when you can or finding another to accommodate you.  Female domination/ FLR is not about your one dimensional ideas of pleasure that are cock focused.

Isn’t it annoying, always wondering: “What will i get?” It is even more annoying to approached in that energy from a human male who is cock focused. Being focused on your pleasures only gets you so far in life. Learning how to focus on pleasuring the dominant will grant you more gratification and bliss. The kind of contentment and revelry that can only be experienced when serving a Dominant Woman. A woman who is in control of Her pleasure will seek to guide you to complete understanding of your own.

The option is always yours. you can choose to be a loser in bed as you have always been. A floor humper, a mere boot licker, a hypno-bitch. However, if those sexual perversions are always only in the name of your jerk off, spank bank theater behind your brain, how happy could you really be? I mean, does licking My boots or giving me money, eating your cum, sucking black cock really matter to you, if I am not finding pleasure in it? Seriously, ask yourself this question. If I am not finding pleasure in your acts of submission, how good could the experience be for you?

you’d simply just be confirming that you are a just loser who needs to jerk off. it cannot think of anything other than blowing it’s load. A pathetic male human, emptying it’s dick. And if I view you this way, I cannot accept you ever. It doesn’t bring Me pleasure to associate with those types.  Focus only on My pleasure to earn your own pleasure. It’s very, very simple. Never think eating your cum, playing with your ass, or sucking cock is pleasurable to Me just because you’re a loser who likes doing weird shit.  As we have already discussed to pleasure a Woman like me you must: earn it.

My tolerance of you comes  only when you earn it. It shows you are focused on pleasuring Me. you’re Focused on earning My time and attention. All other things should be set aside. Never expect me to entertain your cock fantasies. I do them out of My own pleasure, on My own time. you have to focus on earning my time. There is no shortage of losers just like you, who always want my time & attention. I could always delete you at anytime if you do not want to give Me absolute pleasure.