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Chastity Training: What Is a Key Holder/Keyholding?

Chastity Training continues this week as we talk about Keyholding. If you have not been keeping up with our discussions please review this blog post here. Your goal as my slave is to be everything that I want you to be. Chastity will make you into the perfect bitch for me. It will hinder your desire to go against me. Today, we will discuss Key Holding and you’re positions as the one who’s key is being held.

What is Keyholding?

Keyholding is when a powerful Black Goddess holds the key to a lock on a chastity device of a lucky submissive. As a Key Holder, there is much power. As your Key Holder, I am holding your balls and your self-control in my hands. With this key, I am taking away your ability to stroke yourself without permission. Being my slave requires complete focus on me. Masturbation outside of my guidance is not allowed. When I hold your key, it ensures victory in your molding.

The Goal Of Being A Key Holder

Holding your keys in my hands means that I am the director of your sexual gratification. In addition, you will not even be allowed to shower or urinate without my permission once you are locked. Your genitals will no longer belong to you. It is I who will be controlling you. Holding you by the balls, literally. My goal as your Key Holder in Chastity Training is to raise you, mold you, distort you into a bitch of my liking. Interested in only turning you into a mindless drone. You will learn to respect the denial. The denial will make you better for me.

The Rules Of Being My Chastity Slave

Before attempting to joining my Chastity Training, there must be rules established. First, let’s discuss my expectations when you complete this training. The results I expect to see after you complete this training is for you to be a mindless, paying drone. The goal is for you to never say no to me. I am expecting for you to replace each thought you have with pleasing me financially. After completely destroying your self-esteem and self-worth, it will be easy to build you into anything I desire.

How Long Do You Stayed Locked?

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During your chastity training, you will be required to remain in chastity for 21 out of 30 days out the month. This will be required for the first three months of your chastity training. Staying in chastity for the first three months will help rewire and rewrite your brain. I will be replacing your wants and desires with mine. On release date, you will have to ruin your orgasm. This is to remind you that orgasms should not be pleasure for you unless I desire them to be. Completing this successfully will allow you to enjoy more pleasurable orgasms in the future.

You will be required to perform weekly financial tasks, humiliation task, and slave tasks for me inorder to earn your freedom. Failing to do these things will result in staying in your chastity device for an additional 3 days and a $150.00 fine.

Where To Get Started?

In order to get started in your chastity training, make sure you purchase my 2021 Chastity Training Pack. This will teach you about my chastity training style. As this part of my blog grows I will add more resources about chastity training MY WAY.

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2021: Chastity For All Beta Bitches All Year!

This year I will be making it even harder for you to disobey me by denying any and all orgasms you believe you deserve via chastity. I have discussed how I think orgasms are worthless and uneventful in my previous clips. I have the ultimate solution to your jerking: chastity. Placing you in chastity, indefinitely will ensure that you remain forever under my control. You are no use to me if you cannot obey, pay, and stay away until you’re ready to pay again. I also have zero tolerance for submissive who think they shouldn’t pay me because it isn’t their fetish.

What Is Chastity?

Chastity is the state of refraining from all sexual intercourse. In your case, it will be refraining from jerking off everyday. We both know you don’t have much sex with women. So, the definition changes for you. Chastity for me, is a form of obedience training. Men are driven by their sexual desires. I do not enjoy training men who are constantly distracted by their penises. It is immature and it shows a lack of self control. Don’t you want to stop being a wanking loser bitch for the rest of your life. Now, with me you can learn how to stop being an annoying wanking loser and learn to love chastity.

Types Of Devices

There are three types of devices: silicone, polycarbonate devices, and stainless steel devices. I prefer my slaves to wear a chastity belt. It’s a true enforcement of what is going on and who owns what you have going on. However we will discuss them one by one. Please note that you may experience excruciating pain if you choose the wrong device. Please read over this information carefully as I do not give a fuck about you that much to care about your pain. Do not buy devices that are cheaply made. If you receive one and you do not like the quality, return it.

Silcone Devices

These devices are made out of silicone. Silicone devices are durable, pliable, and most men enjoy wearing these types for long-term wear. For the men that wear these chastity devices it feels like a second skin to them. They are great for short-term use and can be used while exercising. Honestly, these kinds of devices make a no-excuses type lock in. Also, they are completely undetectable by airline TSA when used with a plastic lock.

The cons of this device, however, is that users can easily cut them off. Also, it always bitches to feel pleasure through manipulation. I am not a fan of anything that locks you and still allows you to feel pleasure. So, I personally will not recommend. Another thing to look out for is that these are not breathable. Your dick will stink. That means they need to be cleaned daily. I hope you whores are taking showers. Also, these devices have fewer design options.

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Polycarbonate Devices

Polycarbonatedevices offer a more inflexible design and allow less self stimulation versus the silicone chastity devices. Polycarbonate chastity devices offer a more comfortable fit for its users. The designs with these devices are more versatile than silicone. Also, the travel very well when being used with plastic lock safes. The cons however are that they come with a lot of pieces! The user may find himself annoyed with all those parts! Polycarbonate devices may also cause irritation. These devices also slip and pull off often. Not my go to.

Stainless Steel Devices

I must say these are also a favorite of mine. I love the idea of actual steel because it seems more like a real lock in. Stainless steel chastity devices are the strongest on the market. You cannot break out of them unless you get them taken off! These devices are customizable! Also, they are easy to clean and will not rust! However, these little bitches will set off metal detector. That can be embarrassing for you. You will also need several fittings to find the right size for yourself. Overall, I find these to be for more serious chastity wearers who are not married or in relationship with another woman.

Conclusion

So, now that I have educated you about what chastity is and what devices are, this should be enough for now. In the next post we will discuss the benefits of femdom chastity for slaves and why you should consider it. I have put together a Chastity Video pack which include 5 Chastity themed clips, 4 Chastity themed mp3s, and 25+ photos! You may get this video pack for $45 by clicking here. I am currently drafting a keyholding application for men who want to be trained via chastity.

Long Distance Chastity Training

We have already spoken previously about masturbation being performed without the guidance of a Mistress, however, I don’t trust your little hands not to wrap around your pole. You are way too used to touching that little thing. It’s almost like breathing for you now. How could I possibly think that you’d be able to control yourself without me there to control your every move?

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Since, I do not think you are up for the task. I have set some parameters to keep you from wanking off so much: Long distance chastity training. That is right. You will buy yourself a chastity device and mail me the keys. 30 days of not being able to touch yourself, I know, seems like a lot, but you really need this. You’re pathetic as you are now, untrained and wanker like. With training, you will be better.

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Tribute $300 to start your long distance training. This will allow me to help you with your wanking problem. A problem you know stops you from serving a Mistress properly.

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Watch the 1st Installment Here.