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Chastity Training: What Is a Key Holder/Keyholding?

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Chastity Training continues this week as we talk about Keyholding. If you have not been keeping up with our discussions please review this blog post here. Your goal as my slave is to be everything that I want you to be. Chastity will make you into the perfect bitch for me. It will hinder your desire to go against me. Today, we will discuss Key Holding and you’re positions as the one who’s key is being held.

What is Keyholding?

Keyholding is when a powerful Black Goddess holds the key to a lock on a chastity device of a lucky submissive. As a Key Holder, there is much power. As your Key Holder, I am holding your balls and your self-control in my hands. With this key, I am taking away your ability to stroke yourself without permission. Being my slave requires complete focus on me. Masturbation outside of my guidance is not allowed. When I hold your key, it ensures victory in your molding.

The Goal Of Being A Key Holder

Holding your keys in my hands means that I am the director of your sexual gratification. In addition, you will not even be allowed to shower or urinate without my permission once you are locked. Your genitals will no longer belong to you. It is I who will be controlling you. Holding you by the balls, literally. My goal as your Key Holder in Chastity Training is to raise you, mold you, distort you into a bitch of my liking. Interested in only turning you into a mindless drone. You will learn to respect the denial. The denial will make you better for me.

The Rules Of Being My Chastity Slave

Before attempting to joining my Chastity Training, there must be rules established. First, let’s discuss my expectations when you complete this training. The results I expect to see after you complete this training is for you to be a mindless, paying drone. The goal is for you to never say no to me. I am expecting for you to replace each thought you have with pleasing me financially. After completely destroying your self-esteem and self-worth, it will be easy to build you into anything I desire.

How Long Do You Stayed Locked?

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During your chastity training, you will be required to remain in chastity for 21 out of 30 days out the month. This will be required for the first three months of your chastity training. Staying in chastity for the first three months will help rewire and rewrite your brain. I will be replacing your wants and desires with mine. On release date, you will have to ruin your orgasm. This is to remind you that orgasms should not be pleasure for you unless I desire them to be. Completing this successfully will allow you to enjoy more pleasurable orgasms in the future.

You will be required to perform weekly financial tasks, humiliation task, and slave tasks for me inorder to earn your freedom. Failing to do these things will result in staying in your chastity device for an additional 3 days and a $150.00 fine.

Where To Get Started?

In order to get started in your chastity training, make sure you purchase my 2021 Chastity Training Pack. This will teach you about my chastity training style. As this part of my blog grows I will add more resources about chastity training MY WAY.

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Ebony Goddess Findom: The #1 Free Guide To Not Being A Gnat, A Life Changing Habit

Ebony Goddess, Goddess Aspen, adding vigor and lust into your life and using your obvious inferiority against you. Right now, is the 3 year anniversary of the OPS System. It’s time for an Ebony Goddess Findom Refresher on how to leave me alone and wait for acknowledgement. For those of your who do not know what the OPS System is, it is a system that requires men to Obey, Pay, and Stay The Fuck Away from me. However, I am always excited to give new and old losers a refresher on my boundaries and requirements. So, let’s get into it!

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This Ebony Goddess Findom Rarely Wants To Talk To You

I find most men annoying and time-consuming. They are extremely selfish. I do not mesh well with these types of men. Furthermore, the additions men make to my life are minimal unless they are giving me cold, hard cash. Therefore, speaking to men is not a priority for me. I am sure you know how exhausting you fucking are. You are an energy drainer. Ancestrally tired due to white terrorism, colonialism, and patriarchy, I cannot possibly waste my time prodding losers egos. Because of that, I have low tolerance for men, especially white men who do not serve me, an Ebony Goddess, financially. I do not care if that isn’t your fetish. You can stay away from this Ebony Goddess. The OPS System enables losers to do what they are made to do: pay!

You’re Fantasies Are Boring To The Ebony Goddess Findom

You’re fucking boring. I do not think men are at all fun topics. I would rather eat glass than to consistently entertain losers because it’s beneath me to consistently cater to or service male human wants and needs. However, taking money from losers is easy. I enjoy making humiliating content that makes your brain melt. Limiting my contact with men is the key to mental happiness. A mental happiness I could not fulfill if I wasted my time with clingy, co-dependent bitches. Furthermore, it reinforces what the fuck you’re here for: to pay me and make my life EASIER! As a superior Ebony Findom Goddess, I truly prefer to dedicate energy to things that make me happy. You aren’t one of those things.

Staying Away From This Ebony Goddess Findom

This is key to your service in me. It is going to be hard for you but it is how it must be because I do not like any of you. I am here to turn each one that comes across my path into a financial errand boy. In addition to humiliating you and making your brain into silly puddy, I am not here for you at all. It is best that you stay away from me if you’re not looking to build financial rapport. Yes, I am all about the money. No, I do not care if that turns you off. The OPS System is all about silent contributions until I feel you have spent enough to hold actual conversation with me.

Those three men are no longer considered losers in my life because they have shown the utmost dedication to me and my life. They indeed only talk to me when they are paying me because they understand that there is no point in bothering me without cash. My favorite submissives overstand what the dynamic is and because of that are given attention. They have built financial rapport with me.

Ebony Findom Goddesses Don’t Have Time To Care About You

It’s just that simple. To be acknowledged play by my rules. Low-effort attempts to get my attention do not interest me. So, wasting time coddling you is not in my job description ever. If you need more help understanding what the OPS System is, buy more content and give me a reason to actually indulge in connection with you. You will get lost in t

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